How much would it hurt when I lose my virginity?

Question

I'm still a virgin but it's bound to happen.....

Answer 1

To ease the pain, prevent your boyfriend from going right away into the sexual intercourse. Encourage your boyfriend to prepare you by doing all sorts of foreplays, e.g. kissing your lips, necking, massaging and titillating your breast, kissing your clitoris, and other errogenous zones. He needs to know what foreplay means before you give up your virginity. Ask him what he knows. Once you are aroused your vagina will be lubricated and moist such that penetration will be easier. Do not worry if his penis is large. You vagina will expand. You will know if you are fully lubricated because a "white stuff" will be released. Your boyfriend also needs to thrust his penis gently and slowly at first. You must also spread your legs for easy penetration. You may also ask him to apply lubricant in his penis. If he is using a condom, there will be no problem because most condoms are lubricated. The pain which is only temporary is mainly due to the breaking of your hymen. However, your hymen can be ruptured if you are fun of riding bicycle or horse riding.
Good luck and remember me when the night is over.

Answer 2

Every female I've ever had this conversation with, has a completely different answer. There are soooo many determining factors.
Mine hurt like nothing I can describe as my first was the most well endowed man I have ever seen in my life.
The more important thing than the physical pain I think, is the "emotional factor" just don't settle for less than what you've always wanted it to be. So many girls regret giving it up in the back seat of a car when what they'd always hoped for was a beautiful intimate romantic setting.

Answer 3

It didn't hurt at all my first time. You just have to make sure you take it slow the first time. And make sure you are ready and relaxed. If you are tense, then it will cause him to have to force his penis inside of you, which could cause pain. You may be a little uncomfortable at first, but you can never tell. All women are different. It could hurt a lot, or it may not hurt at all. Just make sure you are ready and you take it slow, and you are wet enough. Take a nice hot bath after if you are feeling discomfort, and some tylenol. :)

Answer 4

with the right guy eg kind and honest . a guy who does not trick you into thinking he loves you when he does not . a guy who just wants sex and is clear about that would be better then that.
as for the pain well i was told it is not so bad and that i did things right to help her so that along with her physical response she was not in pain after a very short time.
really i suppose i am too say wait till your married or in love but i don't really agree with that instead just as long as all the cards are laid on the table its all honest that's cool

Answer 5

IF YOU ARE RELAXED AND WITH A GENTLE, LOVING, PARTNER, YOU WILL NOT EXPERIENCE MUCH PAIN AT ALL NO MATTER WHAT SIZE HIS PENIS IS! A GOOD LOVER WILL TAKE HIS TIME AND MAKE SURE THAT YOU ARE NOT IN PAIN, RELAXED, AND COMFORTABLE THE ENTIRE TIME. THAT'S WHY IT IS IMPORTANT TO WAIT FOR THE RIGHT MAN YOUR VERY FIRST TIME, SO YOU'RE EXPERIENCE WON'T BE A NIGHTMARE!! TAKE YOUR TIME HONEY. YOU'VE GOT YOUR WHOLE LIFE TO HAVE SEX!!! =)

Answer 6

Usually it doesn't hurt. I think a lot of women pretend it hurts because they think men expect that.

Answer 7

its going to hurt the rest of your life if he has aids and you have un protceted sex OR if you are toung kissing alot of boys/men/women

Answer 8

It will hurt a lot at first.

Answer 9

it hurts but not that much......you'll be able to take the pain......plus...it feels good when its inside!

Answer 10

what she sed!!! ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^