Does anyone know why I am not able to move on even though I want to??

Question

I feel stuck and don't know why I can't move on or get out of it and get on with my life??? Does anyone know why??

I mean move on with my life and get out of feeling stuck and helpless.

So, how do you move on if it's because you feel stucked about your past?

Answer 1

Sometimes when we are not able to move on, and feel stuck in one place, and can't get on with our lives, I believe it is because we cannot let go of the past. If our past is full of great suffering and we have not healed of all this suffering, we will carry with us all this pain to the Present. If we cannot let go of the things that have hurt us or have tramatized us in our lifetime how can our spirit have hope to continue into the future. A future with buggage from the past, is not a future most people look forward too. Sometimes, people hide all of the suffering and pain so deeply in their sub-concious, that they are not even aware that, that is what is holding them back.
Let us say for example, a person that has been badly and verbally abused by his parents as a child will have very little self-worth and confidence in himself. Without selfworth, and respect for oneself, the child will find it most difficult to grow up to having confidence in himself and his future. Without confidence in himself in being a worthy person, there will be little hope he can achieve finishing school or even getting a worthy job. I believe that our past holds the many secrets to our well-being, and if a person finds the key to unlock the mysteries of his being, he will obtain the healing he needs to continue his life. Courage and strength are the gifts he will aquire as he heals and gets self-confidence and self-worth to continue living. Life is precious and when the person is stuck in the present and cannot move forward learns that his life is worthy of respect and to be honored he might move ahead. Prayer and trust in God are essential..

Answer 2

I have a good idea why.... you can't even tell us what it is that you are trying to move on from. How the hell do you expect to move on if you can't even mention what ever it is that you need to move on from... Moving on with your life involves a process of sadness, madness, grief, numbness, and then resolve. That is when the days get easier, and your life gets happier. But you must be able to deal with whatever it is first in order to move past it.

Answer 3

Sounds like you might be drepressed. Seek professional help if at all possible.