my mom has been dating for about a year and just recently (about 2months) she met her current BF. he is nice and stuff, but i don't like him. and he has a daughter that is 8, but really imature (she acts like my 6 yr.old bro who has ADHD) and i've told my mom that i don't like them, but she tells me to get used to it, because they aren't going anywhere. what should i do?
and last week she said that eventually they would be part of the family and we woud living as a family....(moving in together)......i don't want to live with ppl i don't like. currently we live with my grandma. should i stay and live with her if they move in together or what?
2007-01-17 13:02:51 · 6 answers · asked by sam 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ask yourself what is best for you. Seek your path and then follow it to your career and what ever lasy ahead of you, but don;'t let small thing get in the way to prevent you from being you!:)
2007-01-17 13:06:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is a tough situation. If talking to your mom doesn't help, maybe you should talk to an older family member that you feel you can trust. (grandma perhaps) Perhaps that person can convince your mother that your well-being is most important and maybe bringing someone into the home after such a short period isn't such a good idea. As a parent she has to ensure that her children's safety and comfort in the home is a priority.
2007-01-17 21:15:17 · answer #2 · answered by Arturo Amante 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I think having someone move in with your family after only 2 months is very fast. However, it is your mom's decision and you have to respect it. Perhaps your mom would consider the entire family getting counseling so that everyone learns how to be a family with people they just met. They have special workshops just for blended families.
2007-01-17 21:11:18 · answer #3 · answered by StormyC 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he is nice and everything why dont you like him? because he isnt your dad? or you dont want things to change? and there realy isnt alot you can do your mom is the adult and she deserves to be happy right? if he makes her happy why not give him a chance? my mom got remarried when i was 14 at first i didnt like my step dad but after i took time to get to know him he isnt so bad my mom is happy with him the happiest ive ever seen her so im happy for her
2007-01-17 21:21:17 · answer #4 · answered by cute redhead 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you say HIS daughter is immature? Next time you want to call someone immature try looking into a mirror.
2007-01-18 04:02:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you just do whats good for you. also i'm sorry you dont like them, that really stinks!
2007-01-17 21:12:51 · answer #6 · answered by iloveamadman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋