i dont know what to do i think i might be gay or bi or something! ive already gotten a few ppl to give me answers but still Im confused plz help!! i dont know if im gay or bi or straight... i dont really like guys i mean theyre r cute n i like SOME doods personalities but i couldnt imagine dating them at all but i always catch myself looking at women n stuff n sometimes i think about what would happen if i was gay but idk!! im so confused is this just a stage? everybody says it is usaully a stage when ur young but idk!!! gah somebody help me!!
2007-01-17 12:58:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
just so u kno: i am a girl n im not very old
2007-01-17 13:14:05 · update #1
Wait. Hold back. You sound really young, and that's okay. You may or may not be gay, bi, or straight, and we can't solve that for you tonight. What we can do is tell you that no matter what, you can find love and a good life, and you don't have to tie yourself to a label right away. Hell, some adults change labels more than once!
Wait until you find someone you want to go with. Trust me, when you get love feelings for someone, you will *know* it.
2007-01-17 13:02:55 · answer #1 · answered by GreenEyedLilo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
who ever said its just a stage... is lying to themselves... i don't know what to tell you... but all i can say is... follow your heart... if in some way (i'm confused.... are you a girl or a guy) ... i think you should get a friend who understands... like someone who is sure of their sexuality (well, that's at least sure he or she is gay or bi) and ask them for help... if not... then try this.... think of your feelings about a really hot (well person that attracts you) whether its a girl or a guy... if its just a connection... like you think they're cool, then its just a confusion... if its like sexually... you'll know... and go off that...
you have to sit and think... it won't just suddenly come to you...
2007-01-17 13:06:39 · answer #2 · answered by DR. Connect 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Find some good friends, male or female, and stick with them. Good friends are more important than partners. Don't try to label yourself - you have your whole life ahead of you to work this out. With friends to support you, you'll find what's important to you over time. If you like looking at girls, then there's nothing wrong with that. If you like guys looking at you, there's nothing wrong with that either.
2007-01-17 13:04:17 · answer #3 · answered by Lezz 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
calm down. i don't know how old you are, but you sound young, so there is plenty of time for you to figure it out. i don't know you so i can't say yes you're gay or no you're not, all i can say is if you find yourself consistently wanting to be in relationships (especially physical relationships) with people of the same sex, then chances are you're gay. but there is no hurry! you will figure it out and hopefully you will be happy with yourself no matter what.
2007-01-17 13:07:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Definitely a stage. Either you'll grow out of it or you're really lesbian.
2007-01-17 16:02:10 · answer #5 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the glove don't fit, you must acquit!
2007-01-17 13:03:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋