I had sex with a guy on Aug 2nd 2006 , I have had 6 regular periods since and even too a HPT in Sept 2006, I have not gained weight or felt sick.
Is it safe to quit worrying about being pregnant.
BTW I got a divorce in July and slept with a guy I know and I might be just having problems with my own self because I was with the same guy for 20 years till now. Also I had my tubes tied 18 years ago I really doubt I could get pregnant but want reassurance, so whats the deal am I starting to have a worrying problem or is this some kind of mid life, or a personal issue I have with myself beacuse of a divorce and being intimate with someone else after 20 years with the same man? Also is it pretty safe to say I am not pregnant?
2007-01-17 12:53:08 · 4 answers · asked by missglock19 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The big question is, why not Glock 17? but seriously, with tied tubes and 6 regular periods since your last sexual activity, you can quit worrying about being pregnant, and start focusing on the other circumstances in your life that are causing you to worry. It seems like you have a lot going on in your life right now and it is getting a little overwhelming. Just take it day by day and start working your way through it. Talk to friends, and don't be shy about seeking counseling if nothing else is working.
2007-01-19 10:20:45 · answer #1 · answered by Curious1usa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you are not pregnant and you can quite worrying. When you have your period, it's the stuff that an embryo gets embedded that comes off. Thus you can not be pregnant.
The bigger question is, why are you worrying about being pregnant at this time, given the clear facts as you present them? I think you are correct in wondering about this irrational fear. When we have irrational thoughts and fears there is often times something deeper going on. That's my guess. What that is, I don't know and you don't give enough information to determine it.
You have a challenge. That challenge is to figure out what thought, memory, experience, feeling is sitting just behind the surface of your conscience that you are afraid to deal with and is manifesting itself as the fear of being pregnant? Are you feeling guilty for something? Do you have unprocessed grief or guilt with regard to your divorce? Do you have guilt over having slept with someone when your heart is still owned by your ex-husband?
These questions and more need to be explored and answered before you can get your mind around what's going on and why you are thinking irrationally. It may be well worth the time to seek out a friend, minister, or a trained therapist to help you with this matter so your mind and heart can find freedom and so that you can enjoy some heart felt peace.
Best of luck in your search.
2007-01-18 13:47:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st off I would say with 99.99% confidence that ur not pregnant----have u ever had a panic attack or suffer from any kind of enduring anxiety? go talk to someone about this or any other issues u might not be aware of. good luck
2007-01-17 21:01:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say its safe to say your not pregnant.
2007-01-17 21:00:47 · answer #4 · answered by mrs.mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋