This is my story. I really like this boy in my class, but he likes two other girls. I asked one of them if she liked him, but she said no. My friend asked the other girl because I hardly knew her, and she doesn't like him either. But I'm thinking that he will never like like me. He notices me, but I think I'm ugly. I mean, I have some small pimples on my face, along with some blackheads, and I wear glasses. Today in school I asked him If I look prettier with my glasses on or off, but he said that he didn't want to answer. Then I said that it doesn't matter because I'm ugly either way. And also, I'm a little overweight so that may be a problem too. Can someone please help me? Every time I see those two girls or the boy I like with those two girls, I get jealous, and that affects my mood. Thank you for reading all of this.
2007-01-17 12:44:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, sorry but I forgot to mention that I'm a tomboy, and girly. But he says that I've never been girly.
2007-01-17 13:00:29 · update #1
ADDITIONAL QUESTION
Is there any way that I can make myself look prettier? I guess I am a little pretty...
2007-01-17 13:02:36 · update #2
YOu need to change your whole appearance. Start to dres girly as he calls it. Show off your beautiful looks. Your not ugly unless you make yourself that way. You have to look deep down inside yourself. If he does not notice you then there is a boy who will. Stop being a tomboy and start dreaaing like a young lady that you are. I kow you have friends who dress girly get the to help you do a makeover of yourself and to help you learn how to pick out nice clothes this will show off your beauty and when other boy start to notice you he will too. Work what you have and stop hiding it and stop being so insecure about yourself. We all come in different sizes no matter what size you are you are still beautiful inside and how. Learn how to put on make up to hide the pimples and things get some help from your friends, mom, aunt, older sister ant female that you know whom knows how to dress girly. I am sure they would love to see you dress like a young lady and wanna help you as well.
2007-01-17 13:11:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Alright, I'm going to take tkhe gloves off to help you out a little, so please bear with me. First of all, the self doubt has got to go away, at least for a little bit. If you have no self confidence, no one will truly listen to you, let alone look at you with the thought of a relationship in mind. You are as pretty as you believe yourself to be. In your mind, become a goddess (preferably Venus and I will tell you why.). Venus is portrayed to be as she is because skin on the bones means that you are a healthy woman. Supermodels that starve themselves practically to death are just that, almost dead. You are very much alive and kicking. Be proud of being alive. Next, the glasses are a character adders dream come true. Any guy that is paying any attention would look at those as mysterious and immediately be intrigued. (I like glasses also because I wear them, so I'm biased on that, sorry.). You are a growing and maturing young woman, so the pimples are also a natural thing, be proud that you are also alive enough to be growing and maturing. Finally, if that doesn't get him to like or notice you, start talking to him about stuff he likes (psst... if you don't know, ask some of the people that he hangs around, they hopefully know). If that doesn't work, you have my permission to kick him very hard, then I would encourage you to find someone that is not so bloody shallow. I hope that helps and good luck.
Roy K.
2007-01-17 21:05:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask the parents for acne medication. Wash your face thoroughly every day and use medication. Walk a little more often and cut down on the carbs to help lose the unwanted pounds, BE HAPPY WITH YOURSELF!!!
So much of what beauty is revolves around how you feel about yourself! You're beautiful because you're here in this world where you can become whatever you want to be (maybe not a pixie or Iron Man, but still...) and help make the world better because of what you contribute to it.
Good luck on loving yourself, all else will follow!
2007-01-17 20:55:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to have really bad acne. I never was confident in myself. Now as I got older (16 yrs old). I realized that who cares what other people think. You should be happy with yourself no matter what you look like. God made people in different ways. It's cool to be different.
2007-01-17 21:21:25 · answer #4 · answered by XoLipGlossoX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is a jerk (which he kinda sounds like it) just move on their are better ppl for you! I know it. What really helps for pimples and stuff ( no offense cuz I use it too) is Clean and Clear moisturizer daily wash I believe it is. It helps the first day!
2007-01-17 21:08:31 · answer #5 · answered by Summerchic1315 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no way that he'll like you if you consider yourself ugly. Guys like girls who they think are pretty, even if it's in their own special ways. You don't have to be skinny and perfect to be considered beautiful by a guy! Guys like different aspects of a girl.
If you think you're ugly, then nobody else will think you're pretty, and there's no way he'll like you. It's as simple as that.
He'll like you if you're in a happy mood and always surrounded by friends. Then when you start paying attention to him while you're with your friends, he'll feel special to be given this attention. THAT's how you show him that you like him.
First, like yourself. THEN others will like you in that way.
2007-01-17 20:55:06 · answer #6 · answered by julka323 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i had the same problem before, but listen girl.....you do Not have to go out of your way to make your self pretty..... girlyou are who you are and thats what makes you you. so girl if he dosent like you thats his problem cause he missin out on something good....and you dont have to ware makeup or anything because if someone thinks your ugly tell them you like yourself for who you are and i dont need anything to cover my own self up. if someone dosent like you for who you are and what you look like that isent true love, you shouldent have to look pretty to get a guy, love is a very hard thing and you dont know it intill your really in it and sometimes its hard to tell, but when you are you'll know, dont mistake puppy love for love. Listen girl be yourself, act yourself, look yourself. THATS HOW YOU GET GUYS. and i understand you like him, but sometimes there just isent a connection and you have to move on. I hoped i help and girl, the power to yeah, dont think your ugly because your yourself, think your pretty because you are yourself!!
2007-01-17 21:13:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont knoe wat to say....well...i would just keep a distance b/c if thats the case..its usually he doesnt like th girl...i have had friends go through this..and keep your distance unless u realllyyyy want him but i would suggest staying away
2007-01-17 20:59:37 · answer #8 · answered by br2931 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋