I filed for a Protective order 8 years ago against my husband, Then two days later set him up by calling the cops telling them he violated it. He didn't really do this. But couldn't prove he didn't violate the order. The judge gave him 2 years in prison, i divorced him while he was there. I got everything. He's out now and inherited 28 million bucks from the grandparents. He's re-married to a high level government official and doesn't want for nothing at all. Has a nice home, drives nice expensive vehicles, spends more on a night out with his wife than i make in a month at my job.
While i live in a nearly homeless situation month to month. How can society let these convicts live a life like this?
2007-01-17 12:43:25 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Its called Karma, lady. You did something bad, and you didn't quite get the results you were looking for. Your EX- husband and his new life should not be a concern you any longer. Your jealous because he is having a better life without you and his wealth could have been yours and its not. That's sad. My suggestion would go against your grain and get on with your life and quit thinking about what you don't have and concentrate on what you do. You made your bed, now you must lie in it.
2007-01-17 14:29:14 · answer #1 · answered by J T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter that he inherited money and is a convict, what matters is he is happy and your not. Money isn't everything.
I came in to $260,000 two years ago and I was happy before that money came.
In fact it made me miserable because I was buying things that I'm not used to having. Gold watches, Gold rings, Gold ropes, hell I gave away 14kt Gold Chains to friends. That is no lie. I guess it was my way of tithes!!
I bought a Cadillac Escalade for my wife and and when I drove it I felt funny. All that On star stuff I felt like I was in an Apollo capsule ready to fly to the moon.
I'm use to driving my old pick up truck. The bottom line, money is good, but I had lived average wages and was not rich.
For half my life I never made enough money to really live it up and then one day...bang your $260,000 richer and dont' now how to act.
It was scarry. It really scared me. I can't handle large money and be happy. I am happy now, but once again getting ready to get another $125,000 which is my last check
My life is a living greatness with my wife, but as for money, what can I say!!
I have an entire whole different plan this time. I'm going to put it away for the grandchildren and their College . I have everything I want, My wife, My life , God and Jesus Christ and that is all I need and may be some Tator Tots like them.
So if your ex is a convict, let him be happy and all the power to him. Just take care of you!!
I want to add one more thing, that in Georgia the largest payout was 80 million dollars in the Powerball three years ago and my friend bought 5 quick pics and hit it. I was there when he bought them. I never asked him for anything becaus shortly thereafter I received my money, so everybody had fun that year.
2007-01-17 21:01:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because life is not fair. All too often, the people who you'd think should prosper don't and the ones who shouldn't do. What you did to your ex-husband probably wouldn't get you any votes for being placed in the prospering category though. Hopefully, your situation will improve. Quit concerning yourself with him and work toward your perfect life. Be thankful that you didn't get locked up instead of him since what you did is against the law.
2007-01-17 21:01:32 · answer #3 · answered by OOO! I know! I know! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you shouldnt have set him up first of all. Sounds like you are a bit jealous of his high-life now. And although he may be living the high life, if you had to file a protective order against him 8 years ago, then you are better off without him anyway. He has just stumbled into a pot of gold and its sad we cant all have it that way.
However, he has paid his debt to society and is entitled to a second chance. Lets just hope he was reformed while locked up and isnt abusive with his new wife.
We never have the answers to all our questions, and no matter how unfair life seems to be, we can do nothing but accept what we cannot change.
You have to be content with your decision. If he was abusive then you dont need him anyway. However, if the entire complaint was a hoax because you were mad at him, then you made your bed and you need to lay in it. I honestly hope you didnt make it up. Good luck to you.
2007-01-17 20:56:09 · answer #4 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
You're making this up right? Well, this is how. You are the one who did the wrong. You got a protective order and then lied and sent him to jail. Maybe it's you who should be the ex-convict. You've got what you deserve and your ex-husband is being paid back for the bull that you put him through.
Truthfully, I think you are just trying to get a rise out of people though. No one can be this clueless!
2007-01-17 20:49:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Life isn't always fair! He spent time in prison because of your lie.
His life is none of your business now. Get over it somehow and learn from your lesson of lying about him. Your situation is a perfect example of what goes around comes around. Clean up your act so nothing comes around again to hurt you.
He served his time for a crime he didn't commit. Think about that when you are feeling sorry for your situation. Let it go! You will be better off if you do and get on with your own life. Make it a happy one.
2007-01-17 20:59:04 · answer #6 · answered by Cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You neglected to mention what he did to you to cause you to turn into a deceitful,lying wench not worthy to walk this world.And theres gotta be more to it cuz I ain't ever heard of nobody getting a 2yr term for violating a protective order,unless he already had a record.And if he did,I doubt he could get a high ranking position in government,at least not the US government.Ever heard of Karma? Paybacks a b**ch and your getting what you deserve,which is to become a bitter old coniving bat.He served his debt to society,and some.
2007-01-18 11:58:31 · answer #7 · answered by daddiesslut88 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You Rep what you sew Dear. He is living a good life because you lied and he did 2 years prison time for a crime he did not commit.You are not doing so well because you cased harm to come to another. It's Gods law.
2007-01-18 09:15:46 · answer #8 · answered by Pamela V 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds as if what u did to him is coming back to u, your just sore that u did what u did, u could be the one enjoying the money, had u not done what u did. think u are angrier at yourself than him, seeing now what u lost by lying and divorcing a man who could have given u everything. he paid his debt, a debt he did not even owe, due to a lie someone vindictive told on him. bad things happen to people who hurt other people without any real reasons. just blame it on karma.
2007-01-17 20:54:09 · answer #9 · answered by jude 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
What?
What makes him a convict?
You telling the cops a lie?
2007-01-17 20:50:47 · answer #10 · answered by mrs.mom 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋