why can´t I be happy if I have several men that want to go out with me but I don´t like them, but I really want to have a happy realtionship
2007-01-17 12:37:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
then you can start by loving yourself. stop looking for love sweetie. love will come find you.
2007-01-17 12:42:39 · answer #1 · answered by cfalways 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was just like you a few years ago. What I did, is I decided not to date anyone for over a year. I became happy with who I was. Then out of the blue, when I wasn't looking for it..I met my husband. We now have two wonderful kids and a great marriage.
Be happy with yourself, and love will come along.
2007-01-17 21:02:36 · answer #2 · answered by alexis09178 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just go out with them as friends? Maybe you'll end up liking one. If not....then it will be great practice to find out what your likes and dislikes are. You definitely deserve happiness and you know yourself best. The right person will come along. At least if you go out with these guys....you won't feel alone. You should be flattered that so many guys like you :) What a great feeling! I wish you luck.
2007-01-17 20:44:30 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't be happy because you have a negative vocabulary. What does " can't " mean? I can not has that funny little disturbing word not in it. It means I don't want to or I like being unhappy. Think about it! How can I be happy?... turns it all around for you so start answering this question for yourself.
2007-01-17 20:52:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let anyone else be the source of your joy! You are the only one responsible for your happiness. Find your true self and fall in love with it. You can't expect someone else to love you if you don't first love yourself. Just remember God made you and his creation is flawless, to hate yourself or things about you is to disagree and hate God's design. Once you come to terms with that all other areas of your life will fall into place.
God Bless You
2007-01-17 21:01:15 · answer #5 · answered by charlie's baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st off--if youre looking to find happiness in another person ur setting urself up for a let down---this is not to say that a relationship with the right person doesnt add to your already happy life---may I suggest you think about why u are not happy-----if u have any other issues deal with them---U also have not seemed to have found the right guy yet so keep looking---or sometimes its better not to look and let him find you--there is a jack for every jill---good luck
2007-01-17 20:49:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't force yourself to like someone. But it is normal to want a happy relationship with someone. Maybe you'll know it when the right guy ask you out.
2007-01-17 20:49:46 · answer #7 · answered by GoldenGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're trying to force it and that's what is making you unhappy.
When the right person comes along you'll know it.
In the mean time concentrate on other things in your life that you have going for you.
2007-01-17 20:44:29 · answer #8 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like maybe you are having some internal emotional conflicts perhaps depression that is limiting your ability to connect with someone who might be a really nice guy...
2007-01-17 20:44:16 · answer #9 · answered by Cute But Evil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.you have to make your self happy before any one can make you happy cause happily come with in.and be carefully what you wish for .cause its not what you want when you get it
2007-01-17 21:00:13 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're not the right ones. Keep looking.
2007-01-17 20:48:19 · answer #11 · answered by tomimegi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋