since i was thirteen i found drugs and achool to be an easy answer to all problems..i forgot what i used to do when i had a problem..noww its all i do...i dont know why buit i have problems and im sittin here driniking asking this.
2007-01-17 12:35:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You like how drugs and alcohol make you feel, so you create situations in your head to seem like things are rough in order to party. That's all.
An addict once said, "I dived in the pool as a teenager and came out the other side as a thirty year old man, and I wondered, where did all the time go?"
It means that you don't emotionally get older to deal with normal problems because you keep supressing your emotional growth.
People notice it when you look like a man but seem somewhat retarded, so you put yourself in a position to work only menial jobs for little pay and bumming it.
Watch this movie, dude... but watch it sober, below:
2007-01-17 12:41:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason is because people do the best that they can do to deal with their problems. Right now, abusing those substances is the best you can do. It sounds like you are at a kind of low point and are reaching out to ask for help. Change is possible and WILL happen when two things occur: 1) You realize the drinking/drugs is no longer working to solve the problem (i.e. causing more problems) and 2) you are able to seek help from somoeone (a counselor?) who can work with you to search different options to help you solve your problems. Good luck and God bless!
2007-01-17 12:58:06 · answer #2 · answered by cudancegirl1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
right now you gotta stop taking drugs and achool RIGHT NOW. let me say that drugs and achool kills and its no way to turn to when things get rough. i know stopping might be super hard (becuase you get addicied) but here are tipes 1. when things get out of hand talk to a friend or family 2.if its about someone write about it like write about it in a diary or jornal but make sure no one finds it and if you need help go to the doctors and they will help but get of drugs and achool now and remember drugs and achool destroy dreams and lives
p.s. don't be afraide to tell your parents/guridan if they don't know they will be super sad and/or mad but they will help
2007-01-17 12:46:41 · answer #3 · answered by ♦♪♫ஐ♥♥ஐ♫♪♦ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know I'll sound like a jerk, but it's apparent that you would rather take the easy way out. Drinking and drugs provide you with immediate and gratifying results. What you NEED is to go to counsel ling and AA meetings and NA meetings.
2007-01-17 12:39:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try telling a friend or relative that you want to change.
you've already admitted you have a problem which usually is the hardest thing to do.
maybe even try an AA meeting.
And try to get a hobby or something that interests you which you can do if you feel down, bored, or upset.
Most of all, you have to be dedicated. Sincerely try to stop.
Good luck
2007-01-17 12:39:27 · answer #5 · answered by Richard C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is your way of hiding from the work.
You need to find the one most important thing in your life and always stick to that one thing. Use this as your crutch and not the drugs or alcohol
2007-01-17 12:39:00 · answer #6 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get help ASAP, don't wait. Is there a family member or clergy that you can talk to? Drugs and alcohol will not solve your problems, it will only make it worse. Have you ever seen the program, "Intervention", this is what you need. Don't let your entire life go down the drain, please get help.
2007-01-17 13:12:37 · answer #7 · answered by Faith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because with enough drugs and alcohol you stop feeling. you go to a place where all your problems disappear, where everything in your life stops feeling. (i've never tried, but one of my close friends used to) you feel free from everything in this world. its not the answer though. try something that you like doing. or something that keeps you interested....
2007-01-17 12:41:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK SO It's this simple .... you don't know how to cope.
The thing is that it's easier to not deal with things than it is to deal with feelings of uncertainty and uncontrollable situations. I use to say I don't cope I do dope... Things have changed for me but it hasn't been easy.
2007-01-17 12:40:44 · answer #9 · answered by ~Crystal~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easier than dealing with the emotions, that's why. But it's the wrong way to go, it just doubles the problem.
2007-01-17 12:38:09 · answer #10 · answered by Kiss My Shaz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋