He doesn't ask for either, and seems to be in his own happy place.
2007-01-17 12:35:07 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He makes wierd faces and scares me.
2007-01-17 12:45:52 · update #1
Best he be in his happy place in your house or someone Else's
2007-01-17 12:37:48 · answer #1 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my wife caught me I would be so embarassed but would probably have a laugh about it some time later. The more I think about your question it would be the best turn on for a guy if the woman finished it off. Wow. Hope it works out for you.
2007-01-17 12:46:25 · answer #2 · answered by jtgot1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I might be doing this in a relationship- if I just felt like I needed to have an orgasm, but didnt feel like bothering my partner- if the partner gets involved- there is the whole foreplay and her pleasure- sometimes you just need to have an orgasm. If you came over to him and either took over with your hand, or offered oral sex, without getting undressed or expecting anything else, than I would bet he wouldnt mind...
2007-01-17 12:41:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you feel like. If you are catching him, then he probably wants to be masturbating alone though your help would be probably be okay. You know though, sometimes we all just want to masturbate. That goes for males and females alike. It's part of a healthy sex life.
2007-01-17 12:44:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With a wicked smile on your face ask him if you can join in and start stripping as you walk toward him.
2007-01-17 12:47:53 · answer #5 · answered by tiki/more 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you catch your husband pleasing himself; I would suggest that you spend more time with him alone in bed:)
2007-01-17 12:43:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes men like to please themselves because they are feeling aroused and don't want the obligation of pleasing a partner. Its about simplicity, they can just relax and enjoy an orgasm without worrying about holding back to wait for their lover to orgasm.
Talk to him about it. Let him know that you would be willing to "lend a hand" or just smile and leave him to it. Be flexible, sometimes he may want a hand and sometimes he may just want to be alone. Let him know its his choice.
2007-01-17 12:44:06 · answer #7 · answered by Melanie J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're "catching" him....he probably wants to be alone at that particular time. It doesn't mean that he'll never want your help. I'm sure if you initiate it ....he'll go for the assistance :)
2007-01-17 12:41:18 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your sex life healthy and satisfying for you both? I would generally say leave him alone---but maybe u can somehow raise this issue in a general way and ask him about it. good luck
2007-01-17 12:51:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you so immature? I would never tell anyone what my husband does . I respect him enough to do that. Even as a joke, this is stupid.
2007-01-17 13:03:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋