every since i started my freshman year at school i really havent been happy.the reason is because of my friends. the people i hang out with during classes are great.they make me laugh and make me feel happy. but the friends i hang out with at lunch are the problem.i feel so bored when im with them. they all act like immature kids. i dont feel any connection with them at all anymore.and they dont seem to want to talk to me anyways(but i think it is because i never talk when im around them) anyways if you could please give me some suggestions on what to do please tell me. i know i can just leave them but i dont want to lose them either.
2007-01-17 12:18:05 · 5 answers · asked by unknown 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Perhaps you are at a different level of growth than you were when you felt more comfortable with your lunch-time friends. Maybe you can integrate th two groups of friends a little? Or it may just be that you are growing in a different way, and you should be around who makes you happy. you can always go back to your old friends on days when you're feeling goofy yourself.
2007-01-17 12:23:26 · answer #1 · answered by Christina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest taking the time to find other people in your lunch to sit with that you know well or even a little. You would be surprised at the people you have things in common with if you take the time to look. I know that it is an awkward situation, but give it a go :)
2007-01-17 20:24:28 · answer #2 · answered by BetsyLauren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can always confront them right?asked them why they dont want to talk to you.its hard somtimes but somtimes u just have to leave the people that u like or liked.cuz its obvious that u have a better time with the people that u hang out with at class.
2007-01-17 20:22:57 · answer #3 · answered by angel miaka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you are maturing faster than your crowd.
Lunch is, what? 30 minutes?
You'll be OK reading or doing some extra work while you eat.
Good Luck:)
2007-01-17 20:46:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they ingore you ask them why and be friends with the ppl u want to hang out you
2007-01-17 20:22:36 · answer #5 · answered by Amanda W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋