he cheated on me 8 times n 3 of those times wuz with ma bestfrined the other 2 was my enemie n tha other 1s i juts dont no but i love him n i really cnat live wiout him problem is im going with some otehr guy 2 and now i the 1 chetain on him i didnt mena to ma firneds weer askin if he liked me and i didnt no wt to do cuz he thought we were goi out i really like this guy 2 and i ythink ima falli in love write now i dont no who to chose
tha boi who cheated on me is gangsta he loves me, is sweet, buys mne things, calls me everyday,
tha other boi
he says he lobes, is sweet, likes tha same music i do, talks spanish as i do but dont no him dta well
i just dont no wat to do no mo cuz i really like both of them but i cant just leave 1 fo tha otha wat should i do??
2007-01-17 12:17:01 · 31 answers · asked by lAdY ClUMSY 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Do you have the words "Stupid" tattooed on your forehead?
Come on. First of all you are not in love. You are in love with the concept, but you have no idea what love is. Second, that boy is not in love with you.
Third, why don't you concentrate on school in learning how to read and write so you can break the 'cycle' and do something else with your life other than being so village idiot's girl friend.
Love is truthful and kind. It is not cheating on others, nor is it talking to others about your relationship. It is not liking more than one person. It is total devotion.
2007-01-17 12:23:34 · answer #1 · answered by holeeycow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If what you say is true. I think you need to find someone else who will appreciate and respect you for who you are. You need to raise your expectations of your partner and improve your own self esteem. Like the Supremes said in thier song "You Cant Hurry Love". You also cant make love happen with the wrong people. You cant change people to be what you want them to be either. You will find the right person someday, but so far it sounds like you are just looking in the wrong places.
-- Sorry for a dose of reality
-- Have a nice day
2007-01-17 12:29:12 · answer #2 · answered by whisperer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He cheated on you 8 times. You say that you love him, but he obviously does not love you. If he did, he would not be seeing other girls.
Don't waste your time with him you are just going to end up down a path of misery and a shattered heart. Everyone deserves better. Move on and find the person that you truly deserve. The guy is trash,he's not worth it
2007-01-17 12:21:07 · answer #3 · answered by HappyCat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way you could put up with it is if you can live with him continually cheating on you. He will not stop. If he has cheated on you that many times then, he will always cheat on you. Don't get in a mess by marrying him or having his child because, he will not change. You should drop him like a bad habit and find someone who will appreciate you.
2007-01-17 12:20:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They both sound like BOYS who will take you nowhere in life. Concentrate on your studies. Learn to use English a little better, as opposed to "keeping it real". Focus on YOU. Please don't focus on boys and music.
I'm REALLY not trying to offend you or tick you off. This just isn't one of life's tragedies you need to be worred about. Get out there and make something of yourself, where a gentleman, a real man... will be attracted to you. Together, with the right man (ONE THAT WILL NOT CHEAT ON YOU), you both can become a powerful force and accomplish many, many things.
2007-01-17 12:24:39 · answer #5 · answered by gabound75 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand this more than one might think! I was in a relationship with a guy for 5 years and he cheated on me I seen a video tape text messages the works but i stayed with him. I met this guy that I was working with but I wasn't looking for anyone. The thing about it is he was in a relationship too and he wasn't happy. He said that he was going to leave his relationship well I ended up breaking up with my boyfriend for him but he never left his relationship we still talk and he still says that he is going to. In the end I realized that even if we never end up together he helped me in a way no one else could because he helped me out of a relationship that I didn't deserve to be in.
2007-01-17 12:22:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your ex cheated on u eight times u need to give it a rest, he doesnt love u, if he did he wouldn't have cheated on u with ur friends or ur enemies, not at all would he have betrayed u. i think u r better off with the guy u are with now he seems like u will come out better in the long run with him. y would u even consider taking back a guy who cheated on u 8 times?
2007-01-17 12:22:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 09:26:58 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so he cheated on you..............how many times?Yeah thats where the saying once a cheater always a cheater comes in effect.I was in a relationship similar to that and you know what....its never ganna stop(the cheating).It stopped for me cuz i finally left him...thats how you stop it. No man is worth more than your dignity!!!! And thumbs up for you cheating!!Why feel bad?He did it to you numerous times and he didnt feel bad.Thats oine thing i wish i wouldve done...Got him back....but i just couldnt do it.I rather have left him.So i say stay with guy number 2 and tell guy number 1 to go f*ck himself.
2007-01-17 12:30:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok... what i think you should do is not go bak to the guy that cheated on you 8 times... because he did it with your best friend, enemy, and people you just dont kno.. that is wrong.. you should stick up for yourself... your BEST FRIEND.. obviously shes not a best friend either if she is havin sex with your man.. you need to stay with the new guy.. you deserve respect and the guy that cheated on you doesnt give you respect... you can do better...
2007-01-17 12:22:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋