I am 14 and i am your typical girl. i love to dance, sing and act! I love fashion. I have had crushes on guys but i dont get butterflies in my stomache when i see an attractive guy. I have never had a celebrity guy crush. They were always girls. i never thought of them as crushes. i just really admired the actress and i dont know if that is concidered a crush. i really dont want 2 like girls!!!!!! the only girls ive ever had that exciting feeling around was a popular girl. i think that if im friends with a popular girl i will become popular. dont think i have no friends. i mean i have a lot of friends and we have tons of fun together.well, please help me i am so confused and i want to get married to a guy and live happily ever after just like cinderella. i dont want to ruin my wonderful life like this!!!~pleaase help me, thanks u so much!<3
2007-01-17 12:15:51 · 9 answers · asked by iceprincess21 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i think there is nothing to worry about,you are still too young to know if you enjoy more being with a girl or a boy.....just a crush isn't gonna help you understand if you are "normal" or not...as for the popular thing i would say that you just admire them...that doesn't have to mean that you are in love with them.relax for now there's nothing wrong with you.... ;)
2007-01-17 12:25:26 · answer #1 · answered by anna gr 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You probably aren't a lesbian. During adolescence and teenage years, most girls feel slightly sexually attracted to other girls because they feel a sense of body envy. It will pass. Just because you've never had an attraction to a male celebrity or felt butterflies around a guy doesn't mean you're a lesbian; it just means you haven't encountered a guy who is interesting to you. Don't worry about it.
2007-01-17 12:27:06 · answer #2 · answered by PUtuba7 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
look, i'm not really comfortable offering sexual advice to a minor that i don't know but this is something you should discuss with someone, most likely a counselor. i don't say that because i think your weird or different or anything at all like that but it is a serious matter to be thought a lot about. it is possible you like both sexes, maybe you're just confused but whatever it is i hope you'll get good advice with someone who can help with these types of questions. if you have a good relationship with your mother you may want talk to her about it but either way don't take it lightly and seek sound advice. best wishes to you.
2007-01-17 12:23:26 · answer #3 · answered by David W 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey I really hope that you're not a lez. It shouldn't be something to worry about. I never had worries either I like guys or girls at your age. I just know that I liked girls and that's it. There was no questions about it. Even as a kid growing up I never ever thought about homosexuality even existed because to me it was soooooo unnatural to even think about it. So it could be your confusion from other's around you or watching too many liberal tv with gays and stuff. So don't worry just be yourself. I am proud to be heterosexual because that's natural. It doesn't take a genious to tell me women and men body parts fit together for a purpose. Don't let anyone tell you anything different. Gay and liberals will tell you that it's natural to love your own sex but that's unnatural. I'm not bashing them at all. In fact I said it before and I'll say it again. If a person is born to be gay then go find another gay person to be with but JUST DON'T ADVERTISE TO OTHERS WHO ARE CONFUSED LIKE YOU TO BECOME ONE. I just don't like it when gays try to promote their way of living to heterosexuals and eve tries to recruit them. I hate that! Take care and I hope you find your true love in men if you're heterosexual.
2007-01-18 07:43:36 · answer #4 · answered by Believe me 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sure, and instantly human beings may have crushes on contributors of a similar sex without being gay. it truly is frequent to be attracted to someone that you both discover visually very eye-catching or have issues in instantly ahead with or you recognize for some reason. in case you opt for to have a mature, sexual courting with that man or woman then it is going previous weigh down and that would want to intend you're bisexual. both way, it truly is fairly frequent (IMO) and also you should no longer difficulty about labels a lot.
2016-11-25 00:13:08 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not everything you feel, and that society tells you is good for you, or the rest of society. Many psychologists believe homosexuality is a "sexual disorder." Please don't take offense. Consider that you are becoming susceptible to homosexuality as a disease. It is not normal and against nature. It's all over TV and movies because it is odd and entertaining. It's not healthy. I think you should talk to an adult that you trust and you know is stable in the mind.
2007-01-17 12:21:55 · answer #6 · answered by forcedprogress 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Nothing is wrong with wishes, just spend a little bit of here and there to acquire the desired outlooks.
2007-01-17 12:24:41 · answer #7 · answered by wacky_racer 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have you ever considered the fact that you might be bisexual or a person whos likes both guys and girls?
Maybe this tendency test can help?
http://www.okcupid.com/tests/take?testid=15134143976037004043
2007-01-17 12:24:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you were lesbian you'd know it
2007-01-17 12:19:26 · answer #9 · answered by Spearfish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋