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I had my period Dec. 17 2006 then my boyfriend and I (of one year)
had unprotected sex for a while... then he put on a condom and we went at it again.... about a week later i had what I thought was my period AGAIN!!!! I am a week late on my period and I am tired,
have a lot of gas, and having a few headaches.... please dont tell me to get a pregnancy test or go to a doctor cause I cant..... I dont want my parents to find out... even though they know we have sex.
can sumone PLEASE give me answers?? please!!!......

2007-01-17 12:13:09 · 23 answers · asked by Renee W 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Pregnancy

23 answers

My crystal ball says you got yourself knocked up. Now grow up and get a test!!!!!!

2007-01-17 12:18:18 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs. Always Right 5 · 0 0

Wow, I have been reading some of your answers and I must say some people don't seem to realize that this happens! Whom ever was rude to you in regards to answers, just let it go in one ear and out the other. Sweetie, first things first, check out local pregnancy centers, such as planned parenthood (if in your area) everything there is confidential and you can always ask a friend or your boy friend to help you get there. You don't want to go off the handle right away before knowing for sure what you are facing. Secondly, if you are in deed pregnant you will have to own up to it and face this new challenge in your life. You will have to tell your parents, and yes they may be upset and or dissapointed....but you have to understand that they just want what is best for you. They will learn to deal with this just as you are and they will have to understand that this is going to happen whether they want it to or not. Nothing is going to change it. If you are old enough to be having sex and your parents know then I don't think this is going to be too much of a shock if they allowed for it to continue. Having a baby when you are not ready is a huge life shock and the biggest thing that will ever happen to you, but it is not the end of the world. You will be ok! I hope this helps a little bit and I wish you nothing but good luck.

2007-01-17 12:29:45 · answer #2 · answered by Ladybug 2 · 0 0

There are some really meand people here with nasty answers!! I am very irregular, and sometimes I had my period twice in a month or a lot earlier than it should be, and it does not mean I was pregnant or that it was implantation bleeding, so...you can't tell for sure, there is a big chance you are pregnant but maybe you are just scared and worry and that has delay your period!!
I know you don't want to hear that but you need to go and buy a hpt and test while your parents are gone, or at someone elses house, at school, any place where you feel safe and find out for sure!!
GOOD LUCK!!!

2007-01-17 12:24:37 · answer #3 · answered by Raquel_02 2 · 0 0

Yes, it sounds like you could be pregnant. But, there is no way of knowing for sure unless you have a test. You could always visit Planned Parenthood for a free one and you could take it there so they won't find out. You could even say you are going out with friends or your boyfriend and they'll never be the wiser. Plus, Planned Parenthood will NOT tell anyone without your consent so your secret is safe.

If your parents know your having sex than this shouldn't be a big surprise. As an adult your mom/dad is well aware a possible side effect is an unplanned pregnancy. Please don't worry about their reaction. They will probably be stunned at first but nothing will ever affect their love for you!!! As a mom myself I know this to be true!!

2007-01-17 12:21:34 · answer #4 · answered by Baby #3 due 10/13/09 6 · 0 0

It is very foolish to ask for advice but then tell the adviser what they can & cannot say!

It is aslo foolish to not take a test (since you obvously suspect pregnancy) or to see a doctor... Your life as well a possible babies life are at risk everyday you don't go to the doctor.

If your parents know you have sex, then they know the odds of a sexually active person (especially a young one) getting pregnant. They will be more disapointed in you if you do not stand up & take responsibility for your self or your possible unborn child!

You can go to the drug store & buy a test, no one should ask you your age, as there is no age limit on the purchase of such an item. Planned parenthood is aslo discreet (wont tell mom & dad)***BUT FOR YOUR SAKE PLEASE SEEK REAL HELP FROM AN ADULT YOU CAN TRUST!***

2007-01-17 13:51:01 · answer #5 · answered by Boppysgirl 5 · 0 0

Take the bus to plan parent hood its free and you dont have to tell your parents. OK Im going to say this again. Even though sex is fun and great and feels good. It is a responsibilty. If you think you might be pregnant you have a responsibilty to what might be your baby to find out and if you are take healthy measures and if your not have a party. Sex is not like drinking or smoking it is life changing. weather its getting pregnant or getting an std theres always a risk. And if your going to do an adult thing then you have to act like it and do what needs to be done

2007-01-17 12:23:41 · answer #6 · answered by shannon m 2 · 0 0

Hope you have found your answer. My sister had got irregular periods before but to make sure nothing bad happens to you or your baby I would go see a obgyn and make sure everything is ok with your body and then go from there. Plus, if your parents care about you enough they will just help you along your way, any parent should know not to leave their kids in the time of need cause they will regret it in the future. Good Luck!

2007-01-17 12:32:15 · answer #7 · answered by rachael m 2 · 0 0

YES YOU CAN GO GET A TEST AND SEE A DOCTOR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

For one how old are you???
I'm 17 years old, 18 in 11 days. I am pregnant, almost 9 weeks.
I told my mom when I was 6 weeks. I knew i was pregnant way before then. There are free clinics you CAN go to, to see a doctor. They give FREE pregnancy tests at those clinics.

I'm a teen, but a more responcible one than others. I don't think you should be having sex.

2007-01-17 12:20:54 · answer #8 · answered by Trying to conceive 08 2 · 0 0

I hate to scare you but the blood a week later that you thought was your period could have been your bodies way of telling you you're pregnant. When the egg attatches to the uterus wall you could spot a little. And another sign is soar breast...if I were you I'd get my boyfriend to buy a test..thats the only way. Good Luck.

2007-01-17 12:20:38 · answer #9 · answered by Amber- Colton's Mommy! 2 · 0 0

If you don't want to get a pregnancy test or go to the doctor, all you can do is wait and see if you have another period. Sometimes stress can cause irregularity of your periods and your other symptoms. Sorry there isn't any magical solution.

2007-01-17 12:17:42 · answer #10 · answered by Cara B 4 · 0 0

You can always go to Planned Parenthood! if you are 13 or older you can go without your parent pressent! you can get a pregnancy test without your parents finding out! there they can give you the birth control pill, the day after pill and many more stuff! just search for the local planned parenthood place near your area and have your bf or boyfriend take you! just have your social security number with you! dont worry its all confidential!

2007-01-17 12:23:55 · answer #11 · answered by MARCELA 3 · 0 0

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