I have no one to sit with at lunch...help!?

Question

My best friend just dumped me and I have none of my friends in my lunch. how do I overcome my fear and find someone else to sit with! I'M DESPERATE! I am really shy!

Answer 1

A fear like I have.

First of all, any friend that gets mad over a small thing is not a friend.

Second of all, I am sure there is more than one person you trust and are friends with, or at least talk to a little.

And to prevent embarrasment, try talking about it when it's not lunch time. Call a few friends and ask to sit with them. Try and contact others that are open with a seat. Make new friends.
To make new friends without having to move someone out of the table, make friends with those who are in a similar situation. As people say, if you too have something in common, it's a lot easier to talk. and so, sitting with someone that is also alone will help. Why am i saying to not make friends and at the same time have to make someone go out? You've just been in the same situation, you know how it feels, so, why would you - yourself want others too feel the same - i am left out..?


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I think that it really matters to have someone to sit with.
and so, i dont agree with miss out spoken. When you have no friends to talk to or sit with, you know how bad it can get? It can devople into depression. If one doesn't have anyone to share feelings with, it's like trapping yourself in a small 4 sided room with nothing but plain white. Anyone would go crazy.
Thus, i think you need to think about that a bit. Just sit and read? i think your opinion is actually going to harm her...


-sw33tbitterlife-

Answer 2

First of all do not read a book during lunch. You will look like a real big loser. Just be confident, and talk with people during yur classes. Espicially in pe. If you hear some people talking about something that u have an interest in, just start talking about it with them.

Answer 3

'Think of yourself as being very confident. Don't let it show, that you're worried about someone sitting with you. Walk in as though you own the place and your in control. Sit down and eat comfortably. Confident people draw others to themselves. Now,,,,on a more personal note, consider if you are to blame for them leaving you and if you are, ask them to forgive. It is not a sign of weakness, it is a sign of strength.

Answer 4

That sux for you. Sit with someone in class and then tag along to lunch. You could always just come right up and say to someone/a group, "you mind if I sit with you guys?"

Answer 5

same happend to me, or i think im still going threw it.
ok heres the advice others gave me, and bielive me when i say
that im shyer then you. i only talk 3 sentences a day in school.
i talk to no one else but the teachers, thats how shy i am. anyways try clubs. excelet for people to meet. try classrooms,
try the tipicaly "hey whats up" to a random person. naturally every passing day with greeting becomes friends. i know your shy and its very somewhat scary to approch new people
but in time you will find friends. trust me :]

Answer 6

Get you a good book and don't worry about having someone to sit with sit there and look confident and read

Answer 7

Try and find someone that you kind of know and sit with them. Be nice and maybe they'll become your new friends. They might not be as close to you as your bestfriend was, but atleast you'll have someone to hang out with.

Answer 8

Try talking to people during class or passing periods. Get a lot of aquantances and you will have plenty of places to sit.

Answer 9

Find someone who seems like they are really cool and wanna be around you.....dont worry about being with someone to make you look good but if your doing cause your loney...JUST BE YOURSELF...people will come to you....just see....try to be more involved and you will get friends...but dont tell them anything until you know them well enough....(just a good idea)

Answer 10

You can sit with me anytime!