i'm a 25 year old female........i've always had crushes on cute guys from when I was little until now and still do.........but sometimes if I see a beautiful and sexy girl either on tv or in real life, I have lustful thoughts about her....and I don't know why......I wonder if I'm bi? But then again if I were really bi I can't imagine being with a girl the same way I would with a guy..........I have fantasies about doing lesbian stuff with pretty girls......is this normal thinking or am i bi?
2007-01-17 12:02:33 · 6 answers · asked by Windy 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You're totally normal and now I know I am too. Thank you
2007-01-17 12:22:22 · answer #1 · answered by Tasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can answer whether you are bisexual or what your sexual orientation is. However, plenty of people who fantasise about members of the same sex are not bisexual and plenty of people who are bicurious or bisexual never act on those feelings.
A strict definition of a bisexual would be someone who has romantic and/or sexual relations with other people of more than one sex (though not necessarily at the same time)
However, since not everyone has necessarily had the opportunity to act on their sexual/romantic attractions, some people prefer a looser definition; for instance, that a bisexual is a person who - in their own estimation - feels potentially able to have such attraction. This could be anyone who has erotic, affectionate, or romantic feelings for, fantasies of, and/or experiences with both men and women.
Sexual fantasies can serve many purposes. They can induce sexual desire, maintain sexual arousal, enhance the sexual experience, trigger an orgasm, and preserve a memory. A sexual fantasy is a fantasy of a sexual nature. A person may or may not wish to enact their sexual fantasies in real life; some may find their fantasies completely unacceptable — or even physically impossible — were they to be transposed into real life.
2007-01-17 21:04:33 · answer #2 · answered by Orditz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have that issue too. turns out that i'm bi. for you it might be different considering that everyone is different in all situations. you might be bi you might be straight but definately you are not a lesbian if you also like guys.
2007-01-17 20:15:07 · answer #3 · answered by Chong L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you may be bicurious, not quite bisexual, or you could just be going through a phase. True it could be a bit late for a homoerotic phase but we all go through it at some point in our lives.
2007-01-17 20:07:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bicurious at least. Maybe bisexual. "experiment" with women and you'll know which one of the two you are. Just be honest with your partner(s).
2007-01-18 00:12:47 · answer #5 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a woman I would say that you are quite normal. If you were a male I would say that you do have some issues............................
2007-01-17 20:08:01 · answer #6 · answered by kilroymaster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋