16 and 2 weeks pregnant, need help?

Question

I'm scared and I want to know if anyone could help me. My boyfriend has been really supportive but I'm concerned on whether or not my baby will have a good home, even though my boyfriend and I love it already, but he gets so hyper, angry, and over-excited and I'm not sure if his mood changes would be good for the baby.
Help me please.

Answer 1

I was 17 when I got pregnant for my son, and his father was quite angressive in that way and others. We went to counselling and things calmed down. We are no longer together due to other reasons but still the counselling did help. I'd sit him down and let him know that you really do love him but you are concerned and need him to truly hear what you are saying. Don't raise your voice, it doesn't get you anywhere! Explain to him how you feel, don't demand counselling just suggest that it is there if he is willing. If he loves you and the baby enough, he'll understand and try to fix the problem. Good Luck. If you need to talk to someone whose been through it, e-mail me [e-mail]

Answer 2

when you talk abt having the baby, there are 2 really important aspects to consider. Are you:

1) MENTALLY PREPARED?
2) FINANCIALLY PREPARED?

Everyone who are considering on having a baby, will have a good balance of both of the above.
When I say mentally prepared, I mean it's true that your life does not have to be revolved around your child 24/7. But there certainly will have lotsa changes and adapting. No more FREQUENT partying, clubbing, night-outs with friends and things you always do with frenz. And we have to think maturely and handle matters like an adult. No more time for being childish when it comes to matters concerning the well-being of the child and the family. And have to wise in making decisions. That's what I mean by adapting to your new found life.

And one has to be financially stable to give the child, the life that you bring into this world, a comfortable and safe place to live in. And give the child the best which I'm sure every parents are doing. And having a baby means lotsa money are involved. This sure have to be put into consideration.

Answer 3

i'm also 16 weeks (due seventeenth November) and it appears like perpetually considering i realized i became pregnant and also till i'll finally meet my toddlers. i'm in common words in basic terms starting up to seem pregnant too and it appears like that is been see you later coming, somewhat than in basic terms searching like i have eaten too a lot. i'm also at college analyzing and function a million daughter to save me busy yet I nonetheless can't wait till the day i ultimately meet them! a minimum of I have a touch convenience in that because i'm pregnant with twins my record says i'll bypass early, likely between 35-37 weeks. So there is knocked some more effective weeks wait off for me. good success such as your being pregnant hun - it receives there, in basic terms somewhat slowly....

Answer 4

hey honey, if you really love your baby, then don't doubt it about having him or not. i found out i was pregnant a week after i turned 18. sadly i had a miscarriage, but i never doubt about having my baby. thanks god i had the support of my boyfriend, my family and his family, plus the government really helped single moms. i didn't pay for any of the doc appts, and you can even get free food and free school!! a baby is always a blessing, and the best thing it could happen to a woman. don't be afraid mama cause you're not alone

Answer 5

I would suggest you contact the local womens transition house and speak to the workers re the signs of abuse and what to watch out for.they have info where you can educate yourself on his anger and just how bad it might /could be.Abuse usually increases after the birth of the first child.He may also wish to learn to control his anger issues in which case..good for him..good luck.you have a lot to deal with.seek assistance now..

Answer 6

You need to tell your parents / gaurdian, if you haven't already.
You also will need to go to the doctor.
The baby should be your number one prority right now.
As for your boyfreind, he needs to grow up.
He helped you make this baby and he needs to accept the fact.
For the sake of the baby, he needs to get a handle on things.
As soon as this baby is born, you guys will be in each other's life.

Answer 7

you need to talk to him and explain to him that youll be parents soon and its going to be a long road ahead, and he needs to step up and mature a little bit and work on these mood swings that cant happen when the baby gets there, you both are going ot have enough to deal with especially you youll be the main care giver no t him and hes got to learn to grow up a bit

Answer 8

You might want to consider adoption. That way your child will go to a good family who want a child (and have been vetted already as being good enough). They can raise your child better than you can at this time in your life.

And next time please use some protection.

Answer 9

it will affect u and baby quite badly of his moods.... U have to extra careful during the periods until 3 months,this is what i heard from many peoples.I am aslo 2+ weeks pregnant and got upset with my husband who didn't care my feeling sometimes.

Answer 10

It would have a good home, I'm sorry about my mood swings, I'm not mad at you or anything, and to the people who said to tell a parent, we're emancipated, so I'm not sure if our parents would care. And shasha, it's not like I beat her or anything, I don't abuse her.