He hardly sees me in a day and I love to be near him Wen I get a chance but he tells me to leave him alone and to back the hell off. He never wants to do anything with me anymore what do I do???
2007-01-17 11:51:19 · 16 answers · asked by Lalangel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm sure there is more to it then you are saying, so I can't really say what you should do.
2007-01-17 11:56:15 · answer #1 · answered by inmate3685 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a little shocked that every one is telling you to divorce him.. Better or worse... When you are married you will go through your up and downs.. He may have allot on his mind. If he has been at work all day maybe you should just give him 1hr. to himself when he gets home.. Talk to him and see if you two can come up with some kind of an agreement. Like you will give him a hug and kiss and give him a beer and leave him alone for one hr. Then after that he will agree to sit and talk with you..
I do no that us women get into a habit of jumping on our men when they walk through the door.. Or we have a list of "to dos" we some times forget that they need there time away from every thing every now and then..
Don't give up a marriage takes hard work.. There is always some thing to improve on..
I wish the best to the both of you.
2007-01-17 12:41:39 · answer #2 · answered by mrs.mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the reason why he is so turned off is because you are needy for attention from him and he doesn't have the capacity to give the attention to you like you want. and he feels this and knows this. women are very affectionate like that. so you need to give him his space and plenty of it. instead of just nagging him and being around him so much why don't you go out and hang out with your girlfriends? get some hobbies? if you don't have any hobbies maybe you can look into some? if you don't have a job...get one. if you don't have any friends...then go out and make some. either way...just give him his space. don't worry about it so much.
2007-01-17 12:46:56 · answer #3 · answered by cfalways 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, leave him alone BUT for good!!! He's not worth your effort. Life is way too short to waste your precious time with a total ******!! You need to think of your happiness first . Get out and enjoy yourself and be with friends that want to be with you. It will be difficult but I know you'll thank yourself in the long run!
2007-01-17 12:00:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds as if your love for him is deeper than his love for u. never good to try to force something that just isn't there. maybe get some counseling, or sit down and ask him what is wrong. there is a good chance he may be seeing someone else. and as hurtful as it is, if this is the case, we just have to accept it and allow it to be, as there is very little we can do. usually when a man doesn't want us, anymore, he has another woman he is interested in, and his interest in us has waned.
2007-01-17 12:40:31 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would have left the minute he has lost his respect for me. I wouldn't tolerate someone talking like that to me, especially if they are suppose to love me. Why would you stay in a relationship that is 'verbally abusive' and also, emotional abusive.. It's up to you, if you can put up with that type of behavior, and it's acceptable for you than tell him how you feel and stand your ground. Otherwise..leave for a better husband.
2007-01-17 12:00:44 · answer #6 · answered by jcsas_2000 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Being near him and nagging are completely different issues. Which is it?
2007-01-17 12:00:31 · answer #7 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lose weight, stop nagging, put on makeup, fix your hair, stop watching Oprah and Dr. Phil, take some pride in yourself, and lose weight!
2007-01-17 12:32:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to him about what he's feeling. Allow and be prepared for a brutally honest answer.
2007-01-17 11:57:23 · answer #9 · answered by Leroy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You get some therapy. It sounds like neither of you are clearly communicating your needs and your feelings. Get help, don't take abuse.
2007-01-17 12:02:00 · answer #10 · answered by Jilli Bean 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find something to do and friends of your own. Once he realizes that you aren't there at his beck in call, maybe he will want to spend more time together.
Good luck
2007-01-17 12:35:53 · answer #11 · answered by alexis09178 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋