Would you and why? Example: sex, love ,attention, new relationship, excitement? Or all of the above?
2007-01-17 11:31:15 · 12 answers · asked by Destiny 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
People do things to try and make themselves happy.
If they are unhappily married then they just might have an affair to try and get some happiness.
Happiness comes in many forms and "sex, love ,attention, new relationship, excitement" is ONLY part of it.
There can also be companionship, conversation, kindness, compassion, empathy, general love for each other.
2007-01-17 11:41:47 · answer #1 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Been there, done that...
It's not worth it and while all those things drove you to the affair, the relationship eventually has to end (because of your marriage). Then you are just as alone and even more miserable sitting in an even unhappier marriage, because they always find out. The best thing to do is get a divorce and move on to find someone you can be happy with.
2007-01-17 11:46:04 · answer #2 · answered by StormyC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u think your unhappy in your marriage because the honeymoon stage and excitement is over with, means your shallow and immature, and seek the things that really don't last. means u will be chasing after these things forever, being disappointed in each and every one of your relationships. if u want to be a cheater than why not ask her for a divorce first, can't go outside the marriage to work on problems in the marriage, if u are so unhappy why not work on what u have now, instead of getting someone new, as what u seek is just an illusion, doesn't last, your just selfish and narcissistic.
2007-01-17 11:46:12 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
happy or not happy, i would not get into an affair. it is completely out of the question. i made a vow to my wife and i am keeping that promise. there is no reason to go into an affair. if things get that bad, divorce first, then get with the other person.
2007-01-17 18:39:58 · answer #4 · answered by young grown man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're fiddling with hearth! She is a married female. you're saying you purely choose to be her pal yet your emotions are no longer emotions of friendship. you're sexually fascinated in her and you may bypass out on dates along with her in case you will desire to. This female is obviously fascinated in you. that's barely a be counted of time beforehand the affair starts and from what you have reported i do no longer think of you will turn her away whilst she pursues a extra severe courting with you. be cautious! Affairs in no way end nicely for the guy who's single! you will desire to save your distance from this female. you're fiddling with hearth and you gets injury!
2017-01-01 08:18:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Separate,get a divorce
2007-01-17 11:50:35 · answer #6 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hii yess lots of ppl care love being with there loved one but needs change thats why ppl look for love and new fun but sill love being with the love there use to its like having open fun and not wishing to hide it but feel they have to its say really but thats life today with some married ppl.
2007-01-17 12:23:09 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a girl as well, but no. if you are so unhappy in your marriage you should try putting effort into it and working on it. affairs are never okay.
2007-01-17 11:42:09 · answer #8 · answered by Kari R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a girl but I would for all of the above
2007-01-17 11:35:16 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A divorce would be better than cheating
2007-01-17 16:32:06 · answer #10 · answered by kenneth h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋