he just can't give any more to a relationship? His time he spends with you is limited. Almost as if he spent a few days with you & you should be satisfied. What if he admitted that he didn't put full effort forth into a relationship? Do people think it takes effort, or should just come naturally that someone should naturally want to spend time with someone?
2007-01-17 11:30:38 · 9 answers · asked by Amanda80 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He's just not that into you and isn't interested in having anything more with you.
2007-01-17 12:06:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every relationship is different and life is an ongoing effort, compromise, hard work, and team work. If you do this then you are rewarded, professionally and socially. If a man is not interested in spending time with you and has other things to do, it does not mean he is not interested, it may mean that you are too clingy and he needs some space in which to manoeuvre. He had a certain lifestyle before you came along, and as a rule, men do not like clingy over-bearing needy woman. Take things one step at a time, spend time doing your own thing, and when you get together then that is fine. There is a possibility that this person does not want a serious relationship with you at this time, and you will not get a commitment if you are too pushy anyway. So move things at his pace and see where things lead to. If let's say a few months has passed and you see that you are in an unsatisfying situation, move on.
2007-01-17 19:45:29 · answer #2 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships take effort, all types of relationships take some type of effort to maintain. I don't think its natural though to be with someone 24/7, never need your own space and time, but for the most part you want to spend time with the people you have feelings for. Maybe the guy is comfortable with where the relationship is and trying to tell you he doesn't want more at this point. You either have to be open to that or move on.
2007-01-17 19:40:52 · answer #3 · answered by Forever_Young 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It definitely takes effort. A good relationship is like a job. If you just show up at work and do nothing, nothing will come out of it. Although if you and the other person have good chemistry and truly enjoy each other it makes putting forth effort alot more fun. If a guy is talking this way to you, he is just not into you anymore, look else where.
2007-01-17 19:58:07 · answer #4 · answered by Melissa D F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he says he can't give more to the relatioship then there is a problem !! MAybe no more love, someone else or just a bad relationship!!!! The relationship should be a quality of time we spend with each other as couple not the quantity , if he is doing it just for to to be satisfied but he is not enjoying your time with him then move on he doesn't want to be there anymore or speak up to see what the problem is !!!!
2007-01-17 19:37:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it definitely takes effort. people thinks that it just happens and you shouldn't need to work on a relationship. it's those people who frustrate their partners the most. unfortunately someone needs to want to change their ways and it's virtually impossible to get them to see that. if you're married, then you made a commitment to this person that you need to work out, if you're not married, then maybe you're spending your time with the wrong person for you. have a think about what you mean by spending "time." if you just want to hang and watch tv together as "time" together, that might bore him. you need to do something interesting you both enjoy so maybe then it won't be such a chore to spend "time" together. good luck!
2007-01-17 19:39:08 · answer #6 · answered by MrsTee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love someone spending time with them should be given naturally ,even if, it take effort in doing your best,that is all one can ask for..
2007-01-17 19:42:42 · answer #7 · answered by ladybug 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a new relationship still in it's honeymoon stage is effortless, two wanting to be together and wanting to be with no one else. maybe he is married, and that's why he can't spend more time with u. if he isn't giving u what u need or want best to end it now, before u marry him. think he has priorities elsewhere.
2007-01-17 19:41:11 · answer #8 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ Good answer, what Dr. irene said!
2007-01-17 19:53:39 · answer #9 · answered by lasdoom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋