When My partner and i have sex it feels absolutely amazing and we are both absolutely satisfied at the end but he gets really depressed because he hasnt made me orgasim. i never have. but it still feels amazing to me. i was wondering if anyone had any advice for me. what can we try? help...
2007-01-17 11:23:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
ok extra info: he has given me oral befor sex.
and we normally have foreplay for about 2hrs before sex. generally sometimes we just get straight into it. depends on the situation.
2007-01-17 11:33:39 · update #1
Masturbate and get to know yourself.If you don't know yourself then you don't know what to ask your partner to do.If you get to know yourself then you can help show him were it feels good.Find your G spot and you will be amazed.1 1/2 to 2" up vagina frontward toward abs , not but. Its the same place for a man.Sex therapist for 6 years.
2007-01-17 11:34:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well from my personal experience. You have to explore your sexuality, touch yourself, masterbate whatever you need to do to find out what makes you feel good. Once you get to know yourself, you can have your partner help you orgasm during sex.
2007-01-17 15:18:19 · answer #2 · answered by ?Jaileen? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK i have had this same problem for a long while but this worked for me and i hope it will work for you try rubbing the Cloris while doing it it should bring you there and count your self luck because you have been waiting so long it will be !!EXTREME!!
2007-01-17 12:06:28 · answer #3 · answered by gistwondering 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the whole reason girls have a orgasam is because of the G spot. Search it up on the computer and you will find things about it. discoveryhealth.com
2007-01-17 11:57:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a vibrating toy. Let him do it. Maybe he can go down on you. Viagra. Youll be maxin in no time. Show him where it hurts. Get on top. Fluff him. All kind of stuff you can do.
2007-01-17 11:34:04 · answer #5 · answered by B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Luckily in this day and age you can get a spinal implant that will give you an orgasm at the push of a button.
2007-01-17 11:31:06 · answer #6 · answered by SkewsMe.com 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if it feels great then how do you know you haven't had the big "o"? but if you insist then i recommend lots of touching, caressing, kissing and other sorts of sort-of sexual stuff before getting to the main event.
2007-01-17 11:30:23 · answer #7 · answered by bldskd9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy a book called "For Yourself." by Lonnie Barbach (sp?)
He can't pleasure you if you don't know how to pleasure yourself.
2007-01-17 11:59:03 · answer #8 · answered by chieromancer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
During sex, have him rub your clit with his fingers, or you can do it. It definitly helps :)
2007-01-17 13:22:26 · answer #9 · answered by kasey06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oral, him on you
2007-01-17 11:28:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋