Last week good friends of mine told me that my wife openly confessed she had an affair with a distant cousin of hers. I talked to my wife and she said it was not true. I believed my wife as her cousin is pressently staying with us and I could not see any love between them. Last night my friend talked to wife on the phone and asked basic questions about the affair but this time her husband tapped the phone. The conversation concluded that she had an affair. I love my wife very much and I am willing to forgive her despite she also had a two year affair with someone before we married. However she is also trying to get pregnant and on the recorded conversation she mentioned she is still having sex my her cousin and said that I would not know who's child it would be. Now I am affraid she has gone too far and what I can't understand why my wife would have done all this as I have provided everything including a lot of love for her.
2007-01-17 11:18:28 · 11 answers · asked by maleinaus 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you knew about the affair she had while you were together, but not married that lasted 2 years, and married her anyway, then you have nobody to blame but yourself. If you found out after marrying her and forgave her to have her now doing it again, it's time to admit defeat and leave her. You are going to have a life of heartache and despair if you stay with her. She is a user.
2007-01-17 11:32:57 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all you can love your wife with everything in the world and people make mistakes but if your wife really loved you as much as you love her she wouldn't be doing the same adulteress thing over and over i would say get another wife you sound like a good man and if you don't stand for something now you'll only fall for anything . don't put up with that don't bring your child into it either
2007-01-17 19:35:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u will never be able to understand why, but sometimes it is just easier to leave a situation such as this, and save yourself future heartache at her hands. she is a liar, won't admit to it, planning another child that may not be yours, just playing u. don't forgive her, she hasn't ask for it has she? get out of it, she may love u but at the same time she cheated on u, and u will go through life wandering when it will happen again. never works again, as the marriage has been breached, it can never be the same.
2007-01-17 19:53:39 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you infertile? Is that her solution? If so she is being very selfish!
If its just a sex thing, well that depends on what turns you both on (I'd love to watch my partner with another guy). However, if she's working on the pregnancy angle that is manifestly unfair not to be open with you..
2007-01-17 20:52:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1-Dont involve ur friend in the middle.. friends spoils stuff ..its an experience
2-just go to her and ask do u want to live clean and honst wz me .. if yes then kick her cuzin out of ur house and forget about the bast .. if not then she made he choice and u should get over it
2007-01-17 19:38:31 · answer #5 · answered by ReDWiNe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mate to put it bluntly, dump her sorry ****. Sorry to say it but she's playing you and with her cousin, she has problems. I wish you all the best of luck, you're gonna need it.
2007-01-17 20:53:12 · answer #6 · answered by jtgot1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run away, don't walk, RUN.
Stop having sex with her, if shes having sex with her cousin, in your home, who else?
2007-01-17 19:52:19 · answer #7 · answered by Michael R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
strange.... shes having sex with her cousin? and trying to get pregnant? dude, where do you all live, Kentucky? kick her @ss out!
2007-01-17 19:40:48 · answer #8 · answered by pussycat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick her A** to the curb along with her cosin... sick gal you have there
2007-01-17 19:29:10 · answer #9 · answered by CG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's playing you for a fool. Don't take it.
2007-01-17 19:28:55 · answer #10 · answered by StormyC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋