ok well my friend is perfect at everyhting that she does!I hate people that are good at everyhting that they do.Lots of my friends think shes perfect too. anyways let me tell u a couple of htings that she had done..well first of all at our skool we have a thing fo r P.E. called the shirt program and it starts from the 6th grade to 8th well people in the program oyu have to help during P.E. and u get to move up in to the next color of shirt and that means that ur getting better. So you start wiht a orange shirt and oyu work up to the black shirt which is the highest so all my friends r triing ot get threr black shirts and i really want mines bad but i know that my friend will bet up and get hers first! also in spanish the teacher said that the only top person is her!!! i was like wtf im good in soanish too..i mean i do my work and everything!!!!! i mean if one time i get a good grade and i tell her shes going to be like srry i dotn competet with people but shes actually doing it..help!
2007-01-17 11:17:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She sounds like she's naturally competitive, which can or may not be a bad thing. She sounds like she doesn't realize it either. Sometimes you might not get the recognition you deserve, but as long as you know you're doing well, then that's all that matters. It may be that she needs other people's approval to feel good about herself, and that's one thing you dont need! Don't think that you need a shiny medal or constant praise to the class from your teacher about you to feel good about yourself. Sure, your friend might be good at things, but so are you. I don't reccomend telling her straight out how you feel right now. She could just be trying her hardest, and her friend shooting her down isn't exactly what she wants to hear. If she never congratulates you on any of your achievements, then you might want to think your friendship over. It's nice to give her some glory, but she needs to recognize yours too. Find something you are really good at, like a certain sport, acting, drawing, whatever you think is your thing. Then you can have your own special talent that no one can beat, and it'll make you feel good about yourself. Good luck!
2007-01-17 11:32:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take spelling first thing. Learn to love yourself. Study hard and you too can be, " Ms. Perfect."
2007-01-17 11:50:36 · answer #2 · answered by ~ tina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW ,
~~~~~you have a big case on your hands!!!!!!!!
i sortta have a friend who is perfect!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i geuss all i can say is try to be the best u can be ..........
good luck
2007-01-17 13:38:39 · answer #3 · answered by justmehere 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone has friend like that...All you can do is try harder...or sabotage her, but thats not what friends do! right?
2007-01-17 11:28:49 · answer #4 · answered by mara 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my gosh im with you sister. i have the SAME exact problem.
2007-01-17 11:28:06 · answer #5 · answered by Fizz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try harder and good luck
2007-01-17 11:34:22 · answer #6 · answered by clock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋