i dont know if im gay or bi or straight... i dont really like guys i mean theyre r cute n i like SOME doods personalities but i couldnt imagine dating them at all but i always catch myself looking at women n stuff n sometimes i think about what would happen if i was gay but idk!! im so confused is this just a stage? everybody says it is usaully a stage when ur young but idk!!! gah somebody help me!!
2007-01-17 11:12:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
There are far to many labels ( as I will continue to say since I didn't know yahoo answers had a GLBT answer section till like 30 min ago) to place one on absolutely everyone....
While I personally came out as bisexual, then hesitantly lesbian, now I just slap the cover all, but fits perfect lable of Queer Femme on, But remember, what it means to me, may mean something completely different to another woman!! I am also partnered with a FTM, but I do not in the slightest bit consider myself straight.
Just take a step back, breath, don't worry about SEX, worry about love. Love has no, and knows no gender, you seem very open to that concept, so just let friendships go their natural course and if anything else happens, it happens, if not, oh well......
find out what you like about these people, their qualities and what not....
it may take a few months or it may take well into your later years, possibly even after you've married and had 3 kids (just an example) to figure out who you truely are....
2007-01-17 15:41:36 · answer #1 · answered by Sapphire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 09:23:22 · answer #2 · answered by hudrick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the fullness of time, the truth will out. The truth of who you are that is.In the meantime, don't battle with your emotions. Just let them be, for youth has it's own wisdom as well you know. I urge you to seek council from your local gay/lesbian help line. There are youth group's for young men in your dilemma. Have a look in the yellow pages. I'm sorry i cant be of any more assistance to you.
2007-01-24 03:02:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try going out with a guy or something and see if you feel anything. Then, if you don't maybe look in to being bi and maybe if you really want to know, try going out with a girl. don't worry, just be yourself.
2007-01-23 11:38:47 · answer #4 · answered by ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It definatley sounds to me like you are either gay or bi. You need to decide for yourself though if you find yourself sexually attracted to both men and women, or just women.
2007-01-17 11:27:24 · answer #5 · answered by red92fh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop thinking about it so much, focus on your studies instead. The day you fall in love with someone look down their pants?
2007-01-23 16:38:19 · answer #6 · answered by Kim B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it a few more years...then you will know for sure...
2007-01-17 14:16:26 · answer #7 · answered by rev. needy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you?
2007-01-24 08:27:02 · answer #8 · answered by mrs j 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋