So i finally worked up the corage to ask a person if he was gay or not because i have feelings for him so i went about it this way i asked him if he had a girlfreind and he said quite rudly "does it look like it" and i answered no and then i saw one of my freinds who is a girl and i yelled hey and he asked me if that was my girlfreind and i said no just a good freind and so i said i bet you want a girlfreind and he said "suck my b*lls" rudly and walked away. I have asked lot's of boys that question and never once has anyone ever responded that way so i was just wondering if you thougt he was gay.
PS i am a boy and i have strong felling for him
2007-01-17 11:11:04 · 7 answers · asked by rcasays 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
uhh....next time you ask someone if they are gay don't start off by doing that. Gay guys can take it to mean you're either 1) making fun that they don't like girls or 2) trying to "turn" them straight. If you have feelings for him ask one of your mutual friends, preferably a girl, what his sexual orientation is but make sure she wont tell anyone what you ask her, especially the guy you're interested in. If you find out he's straight then he was just being defensive about not having a girl. If he's gay, then he thought you were making fun of him or trying to "fix" him. If he's bi then he could have done either. Try to get on a better foot with him if you really like him that much.
2007-01-17 11:26:42 · answer #1 · answered by guitarherofairy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he acted rudely toward you. I don't know what he is to you a friend I guess, but you need to reevaluate what's really going on. You can have all the strong feelings that you want, but if you will treat you like this now just as a friend then it's not telling how he is going to treat you in the future.
2007-01-17 19:23:03 · answer #2 · answered by sexxy_fem1000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who knows what he is other than rude.
Your strong feelings for him must be sexual because he's too much of a jerk to feel emotionally warm towards him.
2007-01-17 19:46:25 · answer #3 · answered by castle h 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay friends; he's too grouchy, you'll get hurt. Cheers.
2007-01-17 23:03:47 · answer #4 · answered by DonPiano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he most likely is gay butl u prolly upset him by saying that or he could maybe not want the feelings he has for u or maybe hes just rude idk! lol
2007-01-17 20:49:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO THAT IDIOT'S NOT GAY HE'S JUST PLAIN RUDE!
2007-01-17 20:17:39 · answer #6 · answered by Chong L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OF COURSE HE IS.
2007-01-17 19:22:19 · answer #7 · answered by Sabi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋