why is it so hard for me to become pregnant?

Question

i have only been pregnant only once and that was when i was 23
and now i am 28 and i have been trying for a while and i still not
pregnant.
what should i do?

Answer 1

Do you or your partner smoke, drink or take drugs? My husband used to smoke & drink a lot and as soon as he went on a detox, I immediately got pregnant. Could be a coincidence but he had been together having unprotected sex for 6 years prior. There are many reasons though, best to visit your gp for tests.

Answer 2

Go purchase an ovulation kit and begin to map your cycle. Mark when your period begins, the actual first day. Then start counting, I believe the kit will tell you that on the 12-14th day you should start peeing on the ovulation kit sticks. The kit will tell you when you are about to ovulate, it measures some LH surge. I can't remember the exact initials it gives but it measures a surge and this surge indicates you will ovulate within like 24-36 hours. When the line shows up on the ovulation stick make sure you have sex a few times within those two days. Have your partner drink some caffeine before sex, studies have shown it does actually speed up the sperm. My husband and I got the kit and followed the directions. I also purchased the book "Choosing the Sex of your Baby" It goes over a lot of things about conception and how to conceive a boy or a girl. We only tried once, and I got pregnant the first month that we mapped my cycle and used the ovulation kit. we wanted and boy and I am currently 34 weeks pregnant with our first child, a BOY!! Good Luck :)

Answer 3

If you have been actively trying to get pregnant for over a year, you can see a fertility specialist. If not, check out the book "Taking Charge of your Fertility" in order to track your cycles and increase your chances of having intercourse at the right times.

Answer 4

hiya.would just like to say iknow how u feel i was pregnant almost 3 years ago and lost my son 6 weeks after his birth.. im tryin again and has been a year past 4 tryin..at the min im goin to the doc to get a few tests done to see if im ovulating..i would recommend u to do the same...yes the thought of is horrible,tellin the doc the details but its the only option...good luck and hope u concieve soon ...

Answer 5

Try not to stress it causes fertility to drop and keep trying but my doctor told me that you try for a year on your own then go to the doctor and see whats wrong and maybe start the process to try other possible ways to get pregnant so i would recommend you going to your obgyn and getting help. good luck

Answer 6

Speak to your GP. He should refer you to a fertility specialist. Waiting lists/services do tend to vary from though. Depending on where you live. Unless you can afford to go private.

Answer 7

their is many reasons for infertility .ie pcos,tissue scaring ...and some people are considered by doctors unexpalinable.sometimes it is the male factor.They will do test for this and their is a few options as well they will discuss with you .You will not find your answer on Yahoo no one can guess ...I sugges you go to your doctor ....who will refer you to a specialist ! By the way GOOD LUCK !!!!

Answer 8

I concieved my second daughter by taking Zinc Capsules.
Might not work for you but its worth a try!!

Answer 9

Go see a fertility specialist.

Answer 10

This isnt really a question you should asking yahoo answers people..... You should ask your obgyn why you arent getting pregnant agian.... good luck