2007-01-17 11:05:04 · 127 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I really do thank all of you for these answers...answer is still open...the others are welcomed to share their opinion.
2007-01-17 11:16:30 · update #1
Wow...If I could I would give you all 10 points...see no matter where we live...it happened to everyone...don't you think...so let's help each other in a way...I really I'm impressed.....115 answers till now. keep going!
2007-01-17 11:22:02 · update #2
My first response was "duct tape".
Then I realized that this was a serious question. The real answer is that you get back into your life. You reconnect with your friends, do the things you used to do and enjoy the things you used to enjoy before you gave your heart away. Don't wallow in your sorrow for more that a day or two. Grieve the loss and then move on. It may not be easy but sometimes you just have to 'fake it until you make it'. Time will eventually take the ache away. I know that's a little hard to believe right now with such a fresh wound, but I promise you it's true. You'll never forget but it will be less painful to remember. Good luck, I'll say a little prayer for you tonight.
2007-01-17 15:48:02 · answer #1 · answered by comet girl...DUCK! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't fix it. You also don't do childish crap like get revenge, let another boy feel you up, etc.....yawn. This only shows you're reaching with nothing in sight to grasp. Revenge may make you feel good initially, but in the end it's still over. I wish I had more info on what exactly happened, but I'm working with what I got.
The best thing to do is give it time to heal. Take care of yourself, do special things for you to make you feel better, hang out with your friends (they'll be a great support system). Most of all remember that it won't last forever. Eventually the pain will disperse and you'll find someone who won't even imagine ever breaking your heart. (at least not on purpose!) =)
2007-01-17 11:14:32 · answer #2 · answered by unique2477 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I never want to feel the pure unadulterated pain followed by the hollow empty feeling that it having one'se heart broken. It has to be treated like an illness. Firstly, food must be eaten. Cigarettes must be monitored. Alcohol is useful. Getting all the support you can from friends and getting out and about. Definitely dating someone new. That's what helped me. Replacing that person and discovering that there is not just one special person out there. I think basically pulling out all the stops and getting as much as possible to help from doctors, alternative therapies, friends etc and acceptance that you have to put it behind you. Thinking maybe they will come back is not a good idea.
2007-01-18 21:47:56 · answer #3 · answered by rosebud 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't fix your heart....you fix yourself...I mean this in a very positive way. Going through a painful break up is one of the toughest things to go through in life. But during these most painful moments of our lives we grow. You get busy...Take very good care of yourself...eat healthy...get exercise...read books that are positive and motivating...go out with friends and remember that it is a lot of fun to be single and realize that life is not so bad on your own. Join singles groups, start new activities and meet new people...Before you know it you will meet someone who is better suited for you and will take care of you and your heart. I read a quote once that I thought was perfect: "No boy is worth crying over. And the one who is won’t make you cry"
It is so true...I hope you feel better each day and take care!
2007-01-17 11:30:03 · answer #4 · answered by LoveMyKids 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Time heals all wounds.
Remember when you have a cut somewhere and it hurts and is bleeding, then it gets better and you can't remeber where that cut was is the first place. so what I'm saying is you gotta give it time it may suck at the moment but it will get better and you will one day look back and wonder why you were sad over that person anyway. I wish you the best.
2007-01-17 11:18:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's possible to fix a broken heart but depending on how involved u wher with that peticilar somebody is the difficulty level of acheiving so. Like some people grow so emotinally attached to that someone that it is impossible to move on. Unfortuntaly there is nothin I can do to help the only way to mend your broken heart is for u to have the strength to move on which some people never have which is comepletely understandable to me.
2007-01-17 11:17:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only time fixes it unfortunately.
You need to take your mind off it by being busy. One of the easiest break ups I had was when I went away the very next day on holidays with a group of girlfriends, drinking, partying and shopping. I felt so much better when I got home - it felt like I had split with him years before!
2007-01-17 11:13:57 · answer #7 · answered by Kylie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, there's no quick fix....over time, you eventually get over it, but every once and awhile you'll think back on it and maybe dwell for awhile. Thats just the way it is.
Fortunately for me, I have a black heart made of stone. I've never experienced such a thing....and therefore, everything I know of love comes from trashy romance novels with Fabio on the cover.
2007-01-17 11:19:05 · answer #8 · answered by allthree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just as time goes by and you get on with your life. In the meanwhile just try to keep yourself busy to keep your mind off it. It happens to everyone so don't feel like you're alone in this situation. Good luck. PS - Eating a big ole piece of chocolate cake helps too :-)
2007-01-17 11:18:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a very hard question, but even though its hard to believe time and really giving it your all to move on is what I have learned is best. Keeping friends around to make you feel good and keeping yourself motivated. Dont think to much of the situation cause it can cause terrible stress and no one is worth putting your health at risk.
2007-01-17 11:10:27 · answer #10 · answered by Arthur B. Chaney 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋