ok...so i really like my friends coiusin.well theyre not really cousins, but they say they are. and she knows i like him.he flirts with me all the time.but then my friend always says quit talking about my cousin, or dont ever go out with him...and it hurts my feelings because i really like him and she is my best friend...what should i do?
2007-01-17 11:03:00 · 11 answers · asked by sidonie c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell her that you really like him and ask her why she says those thing because they hurt your feelings. Base your actions depending on her answer, maybe he doesn't have a good history with girlfriends, or maybe she is just being a jealous b****. If she doesn't give a good enough answer go for it, if you think there is something there its a possibility there is. Then you should rethink what kind of best friend she is!
2007-01-17 11:21:20 · answer #1 · answered by hey lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she's really your friend, she'd let you go out with him, unless she is protecting you from a harsh secret about him or something along those lines. or maybe she thinks ir would be akward if you went out with him. talk to your friend about why she thnks that because there should be a reason. then talk to him and see what he thinks.
i'm not any relationship doctor, but that's what i would do.
2007-01-17 11:12:06 · answer #2 · answered by mcluver_8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is true friend then she would want you to be happy. Dating this guy could bring you great happiness and I would explain that to her. If she can not see the light I would ask the guy out anyway.
2007-01-17 11:19:01 · answer #3 · answered by pnut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's ticked about you liking her "cousin" she's not a true friend! If you really like him, go right on ahead.
2007-01-17 11:11:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your friend nicely that it is not her decision and find out what is really up maybe there something else up and if she is your best friend she should really understand good luck
2007-01-17 11:17:00 · answer #5 · answered by mary m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who would u rather loose..him or her? trust me..its not fun loosing all your friends to a guy. i did and i hate it. I AM still with this guy but still...your girlfriends will always be their for you.
good luck, i feel your pain
2007-01-17 11:20:56 · answer #6 · answered by Sumer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since they aren't really cousins, she probably likes him too
2007-01-17 11:10:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her and date him. It's your potential love, not hers!
2007-01-17 11:07:47 · answer #8 · answered by Luna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get to know him better if you want to.
2007-01-17 11:10:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what you want to because she may be your best friend but she dosen't own you or him !!!
2007-01-17 11:17:29 · answer #10 · answered by babyboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋