These people are a major disturbence and then lie to the landlord that they are not loud, they don't yell or aren't home on the days I complain. I will have to start calling the police on distrubance of peace and will document. But in the meantime I have to stand up for myself to my landlord who told me 'she is sick of this and live with it or break my lease and move!' I am going to leave her a phone message... how does this sound, keep in mind we are both pregnant (landlord and me both). I told her about an 'advoate' which will probably be the police... as she won't deal with it.
2007-01-17 10:04:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
"I understand you are extremely frustrated about this situation. I know that they lying to you, because I was home and there was an adult and a child home during the daytime causing a loud disturbance continually. I think my next recourse is to find an advocate to help resolve this issue. I am sorry that you are in this situation when you are so pregnant, as you know, I understand stress and pregnancy don’t fit together well. Thanks for your message and letting me know where you stand. "
2007-01-17 10:05:03 · update #1
i want to leave the message to stand up for myself. She shouldn't get to be rude and think that I will leave it like that between us
2007-01-17 10:12:35 · update #2
The land lord isn't going to do anything. I think the next time it happens you should call the police and let them handle it. You should not have to move due to someone else's mistakes and noise.
2007-01-17 10:09:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You definitely need to send them a letter saying something needs to be done. Call the cops when they are disturbing the peace, that way when they lie, you have a police report to prove they lied and send a copy to the landlord as well.
The landlord is required by law to resolve the issue within 30 days or you can legally withhold your rent until the matter is resolved. Her being pregnant may make it more difficult FOR HER, BUT it is still her responsibility to resolve, NOT yours to "deal with". She is trying to cop out, not ruffle feathers and keep her cash flow. She should keep in mind that you are pregnant as well and it's a lot more stressful to you than her, seeing as you are living with it. It will also make her look worse if it ever goes to court and you have documented proof.
The good thing to do is to do everything in the first paragraph, AND seek legal counsel. There are Tenant Rights advocates that can help you, you can find them at your local Dept. of Health and Human Services.
The biggest thing is to DOCUMENT everything!! The more documentation you have to back you up, the better off you will be.
Good Luck, I have been through that and am going through it again in a whole new apartment with a new landlord.
You STAY ON HER until she fixes the problem or she'll do it again!
2007-01-17 10:19:16 · answer #2 · answered by patti_jim_reynolds 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at the beginning of the female needs to make her guy take a tub! And confident, i might call the police and cause them to come out and look into at any time day or night, and function them wreck it up. perhaps that could embarrass them into shutting up? I actual might call the owner. I had to call the police numerous situations on our upstairs acquaintances some years in the past. He might beat her mindless. He had a gun. One time while she became approximately 8 months pregnant, he pushed her down the stairs. We now stay interior the rustic and have not have been given any incredibly close acquaintances!
2016-12-12 13:53:16 · answer #3 · answered by lillibridge 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is well-worded, with one sentence being the exception. I would say "I am sorry WE are in this....", and drop the "so" in so pregnant.
Also, I would consider writing it instead. That way you can have a copy for recording purposes, and it gives her more space and time to collect her thoughts, and she'll be more likely to respond favorably.
Is there no way you can contact your landlord when the noise is happening?
2007-01-17 10:16:03 · answer #4 · answered by and_y_knot 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would break my lease and move it will only get worse after you call the police and then you will have more stress then you need!
2007-01-17 10:15:45 · answer #5 · answered by I'm laughing WITH you 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The message is way too long. Simply say "thank you for understanding a pregnant woman's dilemma. I have called the police and they will handle the problem for me. thank you again .
and call the police!!!!!!!!
2007-01-17 10:11:49 · answer #6 · answered by veerfish 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
what ever message you leave is not going to help, she has stated that you live with it or break your lease, and there you need documentation , so now you have to choose what you want to do, move or stay
2007-01-17 10:10:31 · answer #7 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my experience there are very few understanding landlords. let the police handle it. shell only give u hassle for bothering her.
2007-01-17 10:16:06 · answer #8 · answered by mongoose29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are adding more anger with your land lord by your message and I honestly don't think it will make a bit of difference.
2007-01-17 10:11:03 · answer #9 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds ok BUT, I like this better...
Listen here you @&^*%@ *****, either you get these @$&*#@
&%$holes out of here, or I'll &*^* you up the %$#!!!
2007-01-17 10:11:46 · answer #10 · answered by not4u2c_yet 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋