ok i recently posted this question not to long ago...my girl n i talk, exchange the way we both felt. she wanted me to do what she says and when she says something to do it...mind u shes very controlling and i cant let someoneltell me what to do 24/7 anyways i decided if iur relationship is going to work might aswell do as she say for a while to see so after waitn and doing what she said finnally just yesterday she tries to be affectionate with me and it was weird because she never initiates so to make along story short i endup playng with her kitty until she has an orgasm then after dat she rolls over and calls it quit, so i ask her to kiss me n she said NO i asked her to touch me and she said NO anything i tried she said NO lets go to bed, im like WTF she playn games sh enever had a problem with doing anything when i aske her too.....so i dont know im confused i tried tallking to her and she doesnt wanna hear it to the point where inside its juts killing me deeply...someone HELP
2007-01-17 10:01:36 · 3 answers · asked by L3ZBiiAN SW33TZ 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
continued question
Why is sex ruining our relationship?(part 1)
ok me n my girl been together 1.5 years so far at the begining she wanted to have sex ALL the time n i was ok with it. now 4 the last 4 months she doesnt want too n tells me that i think about SEX all the time...i cant even cuddle with her like we used too(i normally hold her with 1 hand holding boob and the other in between her thighs (nothing sexual- that the way we've been sleeping since day 1) n she thinks im doing that to get laid. i just tell her shes loosing it because if were used to doing things a certain way n now she wants to change it up...i personnaly know she aint cheatting but it makes me wonder. i know females at time get tired of having sex for a while but not 4 months....men n women have needs...i just dont get it ...shes streesing me out n its messing up our relationship.....WHAT DO U THINK?
i just turned 24 n shes about to be 32
2007-01-17 10:03:09 · update #1
she is playing games. By the sounds of it I would say she has someone on the side. Don't satisfy her if she isn't going to return the favor. She is just trying to see how far she can push you. Put a stop to it NOW!
2007-01-17 10:12:11 · answer #1 · answered by glamour04111 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at this point seems like you're nothing but sex to her. when she doesn't want it she doesn't and when she wants it she gets it and turns cold after it. somethings not right here, the fact that she didn't kiss you afterwards shows that there's something seriosly wrong.....
2007-01-17 10:34:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she can't give you that same good feeling that she's receiving don't do her.
2007-01-17 10:17:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋