Last time I asked a question like this I got an email from yahoo saying it was offensive. So just wanted to warn people.
Just wanted to ask any ladies out there if they've had anal with their partners. What are the benefits and what are the disadvantages.
Please don't be offended I just want to know some information. Thanks.
2007-01-17 09:28:19 · 17 answers · asked by Ste444 4 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I think you may get another similar e-mail from Yahoo.
2007-01-20 07:40:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi I'm a man if this some thing you want to do do it as the sensation can be good but you need to use lube as it will hurt and can cause some damage may be first if you have some adult toys you can play with them fist on your bum take it slow use small toys first and work your way up Also if this is your boy Friend idear see if he would let you use toys on him as love is trust understanding and then he can see whats it is like and be sure when you do it go slow in beginning do not ram as it can hurt Good luke
2007-01-17 21:34:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's another sexual position. What are the "benefits" of doing it doggie style or cowgirl style or 69, etc. The benefits and disadvantages are unto themselves and vary from couple to couple, person to person. It's situational. It's an experience. This isn't opening a bank account. If this is a serious question you need to ask yourself how comfortable are you with sex, your body and your partner. Can you communicate what you want sexually to the person you are with? Do you both enjoy exploration? How far is too far for you and your partner? You have to trust the person you are with.
2007-01-17 10:01:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Benefits... the whole area is full of sensitive terminals, the so close position to the vagina gives a new way of satisfaction.... first you want to massage the area to allow penetration, then use lube.
Disadvantages... the area is not naturally lubed, you need lube, if you don't use it it will hurt BIG TIME... then it's easy to get infections... on both sides. You as the girl, need to be in control of the situation as to how much to let in... you need to do it at the speed you want. You on top is the best for this. If you change from anal to vaginal, he needs to wash his penis extremely well.
2007-01-17 09:42:47 · answer #4 · answered by User 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm not exactly offended. Disgusted, yes. Nauseated, yes. Creeped out, you bet! Ready to give up on the human race that thinks up such incredibly sick perversions of the natural act between a man and a woman, yes. I mean, if you're two guys, there isn't another opening to put it in, so that is understandable, but you've got a perfectly good vagina, right?
On second thought, I AM offended! This is far beyond gross. And there are young teens that come to this site. I truly am offended, and I suggest you remove this question. I'm not reporting you, but please remove it yourself as a matter of common decency.
2007-01-19 05:57:43 · answer #5 · answered by Maple 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
benefits - my fella is like a dog with two you know whats for at least a month after - and would do anything for me!! LOL!!! I let him maybe 2 or 3 times a year and he loves it - just a naughty thing I think!! the other benfit is that I do actaully quite enjoy it after the initial gritting my teeth pain, and I find it incredibly erotic to think about - I have to say that thinking about it is often more horny than actually doing it unless your a slack assed pro!!!
The disadvantages are often I don't poo for a week!! it hurts quite a bit at first, sometimes i like to feel dirty and naughty - other times though I feel a bit used!! no idea why!!!!
good luck! enjoy!! and please be careful, use lube blah blah blah!! and only do it if your SURE!!
2007-01-18 23:13:02 · answer #6 · answered by Grace - baby No.2 due in October 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
my boyfriend and i really enjoy anal sex so no, im not offended by ur question. My advise for you is to go slow and at ur pace (not the guys) after all ur the one with a **** up ur ***. Be gental! N if u do it right it can feel really gud for the both of you. it really is a different experiance- enjoy!
2007-01-21 08:39:52 · answer #7 · answered by pixiexxpixiexpixie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Benefits is that it is something new to try. Men want to stick it in whichever hole it can fit. If it could fit in your nostril, they'd probably want to stick it there too.
Disadvantages is that it hurts, is very uncomfortable and it can cause infections, bladder infections if you go from anal to vaginal, among other things.
2007-01-17 09:41:16 · answer #8 · answered by His Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. as far as benefits i don't necessarily know any im mean it was ok but nothing that i would request, but if he ask's i have no problem giving him what he wants. the disadvantages well you could be sore after wards and let's just say that sometimes you can put yourself in a shitty situation if you know what i mean.
2007-01-17 09:39:12 · answer #9 · answered by Violet 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i am male
if you want to try it you MUST use lube. i would recomend the cowgirl position and have vagnal sex first to get yourself warmed up. Do not try on a one night stand, and make sure the man will stop at your first request. you could try using a sex toy on yourself first, but USE LUBE
2007-01-17 09:33:53 · answer #10 · answered by stevenhawkins2208 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋