I have a hot bf and we just started having sex and i stuff alot into my bra and he thinks they are all natural Help me please!!!
2007-01-17 09:27:20 · 9 answers · asked by yugihowitch 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I feel your pain! I have very small breasts too and was at one time painfully self conscious about them. I wore silicone falsies and padded bras to make myself feel more comfortable. My first partner and I had been having sex for a year before I would let him near me. I was well into college before I got to the point where I could fully disrobe in front of him. You need to learn to love your body, which I can testify to, is easier said than done. But if your sex partner is serious about you and loves you, he will accept your body. If not, do you really want to be involved with someone so shallow? I recommend that you do some work on you that makes you feel good about yourself. College? Serving at a soup kitchen? Grooming pets at a local shelter? All are great things to make you more confident about who you are. It worked for me! Queen of the IBTC (Itty bitty titty committee) has become a total success (about to finish graduate school!) Ask any guy... nothing is as sexy as confidence... just ask my bf!
2007-01-17 09:50:13 · answer #1 · answered by la femme d'argent 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I used to stuff also when I was young. So you're not alone in that.
Since you've just started having sex, this hot bf is bound to do more than "cop a feel." Why not immediately tell him the truth, but also make sure he understands that you feel insecure about your present body image. If he's a decent chap, he'll enjoy your company as well as the physical play you have together and get past the aaa boobs. Besides, there are plenty men who just LOVE tiny boobs. Help him to enjoy what you've got and don't feel like you're any less of a female because your definitely NOT!
P.S. since many years have passed since I was your size, I've developed more boobs than I enjoy carrying around. Be happy with what you've got. God doesn't make any JUNK !
2007-01-17 17:42:22 · answer #2 · answered by Moe J 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe start slowly stuffing a little less every day. Or you could just tell him upright. Maybe you could just wear a super padded bra so when you take it off, the stuffing won't fall out. This was in a magazine though: If you're not ready to be truthful with your guy, then you arn't read to have sex.
2007-01-17 17:32:26 · answer #3 · answered by groverst44 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hahahaha... How old are you... I hope your not too young to be having sex. Make sure you wear a condom. Well, about your FAKE boobs, tell your boyfriend. If he's only interested in you because you stuff your bra, then he's not worth it.
2007-01-18 02:31:32 · answer #4 · answered by oofagook 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take it from a guy who's totally into boobs. Don't lie about it. Come clean, and just explain it to him. The relationship shouldn't based on just your looks. And if he really loves you then he'll be able to brush it off. But don't forget to apologize for lying. If anything, that's the only excusable reason he could have for being upset about this.
2007-01-17 17:34:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i hope you dont stuff too much.....or else your bf might be disappointed.....and not only that ...you'll be embarrased.....i know i would......but if he really loves you then he'll be ok.....just stop stuffing and wear a push up bra instead......
2007-01-17 17:31:16 · answer #6 · answered by sexy-cecy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IF THAT THE ONLY REASON WHY HE'S WITH YOU THEN DUMP HIM.TELL HIM STUFFING YOUR BRA IS HAVING A BOOB JOB WITH THE EXPENSIVE SURGERY.
2007-01-17 17:31:48 · answer #7 · answered by K.B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't take your bra off.
2007-01-17 17:30:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
hahaha ur ******, ******* girls are so dumb these days
2007-01-17 17:31:15 · answer #9 · answered by i_have_aids123 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋