I've herd there's diffrent ways to have sex, but is it all nesesary? Do you just sit in bed with a guy with his peni up you??? I have these questions b/c I dont have a mom. she ran out on my family and i dont feel comfortable talking to my dad, and my grandma, it's just not right talking to her about this.
2007-01-17 09:17:49 · 11 answers · asked by Jess 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
There are lots of ways to have sex. And yes you put the penis inside you but move too. I am sorry about your mom. Don't have sex until your older. and always, always, always make them wear a condom. please, that is for your safety. There are a lot of sexually transmitted diseases.
2007-01-17 09:23:23 · answer #1 · answered by CASSONDRA D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not all necessary. You need to do whatever makes YOU feel comfortable. It is scary thinking about your first time, but it does come natural. Grant it, it gets better with time and will still be awkward your first time, but it won't be so bad. Note of advice though: do not have sex with someone that you can't talk to about having children. There is not a surefire way of not getting pregnant and if you aren't comfortable enough to talk about what would happen if you did get pregnant there is no reason you should be having sex. You also need to love the guy for a couple of reasons. A) If you do get pregnant, he will be in your life forever and B) It feels so much better when you have love behind. It is more special and you don't feel dirty afterward and be thinking, "that SO was not worth it!"
Always be careful. Again, do what makes YOU comfortable. If you aren't comfortable then he won't be and it will be a big mess!
2007-01-17 09:25:13 · answer #2 · answered by chic0605 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really need to find someone to talk to in person about this, because this is a long conversation that every girl needs to have. And no you don't just lie there with a penis inside you. It's far more complicated than that. Also, if you are asking these types of questions, you DEFINITELY aren't ready for sex. Try the internet? I would say avoid the porn sites... but there isn't much out there about sex other than that. lol.
2007-01-17 11:52:16 · answer #3 · answered by Hawaii_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Different positions give different feelings. How deep the penetration is. How comfortable you are in the position.
Different positions make your sex life more fun, instead of the same old routine again and again.
Their is obviously more to it than just sitting in bed with his penis in you. You know "the motion of the ocean" lol.
Sex has allot more to do with it than that. Their is fore play, and discovering different "hot" spots on each others body, finding out what each of you like most about that time, and satisfying each other sexually.
Oh yeah, don't forget to relax and use your whole body. Don't let him do all the work, it wont be any fun for you.
2007-01-17 09:31:01 · answer #4 · answered by liquidblue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that it appears that this is only pleasing to a man,but it's not. At first, you normally do only one thing, and as your relationship deepens you will trust him more and are much more comfortable with him;this will ease your mind and you will feel better about trying more things. As you grow you will know what you like and you will have learned what your partner likes as well. It's all about being with someone you trust and are comfortable with,if you are embarrasses,your probably not ready!
Remember to be PROTECTED!!!!!!!
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2016-12-12 13:51:52 · answer #6 · answered by lillibridge 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, there arer different ways to have sex. it's not that necessary as long as you consider it as making love.but it does add some spice to the process and the relationship..
2007-01-17 12:12:48 · answer #7 · answered by shazeldg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol i would never talk to my mom about this stuff. Ya they all feel different and it depends on what you like.
2007-01-17 18:46:28 · answer #8 · answered by Kenny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.) The penis inside you
2.) Penis inside the booty
3.) oral sex
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2007-01-18 07:42:16 · answer #9 · answered by Whats Up? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends what makes you feel good...
I guess
2007-01-17 09:22:02 · answer #10 · answered by babycrystal12195 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋