Mean rumors?

Question

One of my so-called "friends" spread a rumor saying that I was a s!ut and that I would cheat on my boyfriend(I don't even have a boyfriend).
She also photo-shopped my face onto a dirty picture and passed them around school.
Our parents talked to each other about the situation and we made sure the girl doesn't do any more rude things or else she's expelled.
But now,I keep finding mean thing like, "Jenny is a F**king tattletale" written on the bathroom wall.
I was fine before the graffitti came along and then it made it worse. If anyone has been through something like this, PLEASE ANSWER!

By the way, I'm 16 and in 11th grade

Answer 1

yes rumors hurt

many of us who are unfortunate to be at the top pf the social food chain have had rumors spread about us

aost hurtful
mine was so hurtful that i am not comfortable sharing it publically

Answer 2

Just ignore her and pretend like it doesn't bother you. She's definately not a friend if she's doing that. It will piss her off even more if you ignore it but at least she will realize that she or her words mean nothing to you. In the end she will eventually get over it and grow up and see how immature she was acting. It's just high school drama. I unfortunately had the same rumors going around about me....I just ignored it and went along with my life. I had my friends, I didn't need her, and everyone soon realized they were just rumors. Of course there are those people who think it's funny to bring it up when they see me....even though we have been out of highschool for 2 1/2 years.....those guys won't ever grow up. You're gonna get stuff like this through out your life....that's just how life is. My freshman year.....my best friend was the one saying these things...so I transferred to another school. My suggestion....don't run away....stay there because then they will think that they won. Crazy thing is.....she is still my best friend but we have grown up so much since then we just laugh about it now. Good luck.....just remember.....people like this person you are talking about, never go away. Just be the bigger person!! Good luck!!

Answer 3

This so-called friend is no friend at all... Is she? Really, with friends like that, do you really need any enemies? I don't think so... I'm wondering about what it is that has her acting like she wants to injure you and your reputation. Is she jealous or something? Well, whatever the case.... it's harassment on her part. I'd make sure the school officials see what was written on the bathroom wall. They will know it's her, but w/o proof that she put it there.... They won't be able to do much. But this will let them know that the harassment is continuing on and perhaps the girl can be warned again.

Answer 4

First I want to say, it's not going to get better. When I was in high school kids would pick on me all the time and I would jut hold my head high and keep walking.

What you need to do is forgive and forget. This girl probably was saying things about you because she was jealous. And someone like her isn't what you call a friend.

If it keeps happening talk to your school couselor-and if she says you're a tattletale, who cares!

If you have any more questions, email me!

Answer 5

This sounds like there's a bigger problem with this girl than with you. She is in desperate need of attention and really doesn't know how to get it. I 've been there before but before you know it you'll graduate and not even remember that this happened. Instead of getting angry with her, try and talk to her. Fnd out what's going on with her and see if you can help. Believe me, 1 million and 1 people will tell you to tell her off or be just as mean back to her, but trust me when you get to my age you'll realize that that sort of behaviour won't change a thing,and plus you seem to have your head on a bit tighter than hers, so she could probably use some friendly advice from you. But overall don't let anything anyone says get to you, because you know it's not true and it's not worth it.

Answer 6

Isn't that enough to get her expelled? That's what I'd try. Anyway, I'm sure she's just jealous of you for one reason or another. Ignoring her will piss her off more at first, but eventually she'll back off. And anyone who's smart and has some manners will only think she's stupid and not want anything to do with her anymore. Don't worry, she'll get whats coming to her.

Answer 7

Ignore that.. rumora are retarded. People try to start rumors about like II'm a S!ut all you have to do is go up to that person and be like :

"Why are you making up dumb lies.. huh? Maybe it's because you have no life and have nothing better to do so you come up with lies and say they are true, So you become my so-called friend to spill all my secretsout then make up rumors, Good luck w/ that in life because it wont get you 2 far"

Tell her just like that.. she has no right to do that.

Answer 8

Wow major ***** alert. Next time she starts something get in her face and go off I mean really go off on her until she almost cries and if that doesn't work start a rumor that she's a prostitute or something. Yes I know it's not the best idea but you know what they say if you cant beat 'em join 'em.

Answer 9

These so-called "friends" are not your true friends. True friends would never spill secrets about you, and be there by your side. Stop hanging around these people and get some new friends that'll be more respectful to you. Best to do is ignore their teasing and try not to be angry or pissed about it. Not showing anything to them like anger or embarrassment will more than likely bore them from not seeing a reaction from you.

Answer 10

My ex-boyfriend spread a rumor about me that I was pregnant with my best friend's, Sean, baby. TOTALLY not true. He also keeps saying how I had sex with him (he's so gross!) and how I cheated on him with this other guy...and how I had sex with him, too. None of that was EVER true...because first of all I am still a virgin and will always be until I am married! I can't stand him!