My husband kissed and made out with another common married friend who we both know her and her hubby and my hub and her hub are very close friends. Anyway they kissed and made out a while back. That woman is pregnant with her hub's child and she is 7 months along now. Since I know of their previous encounter and the fact they still are friends and stick to emails and every couple of months see each other with a group of people in public, I had a question about what my hub did to her. He saw her at dinner last week with her hub and other friends. He approached her and hugged her and said let's compare and see who's belly is bigger yours or mine. He said his belly looks like he is 5 months and then she said hers is 7 months and they compared, laughed and she looked at her own and at his. And then she touched his love handles as my sister told me and he was talking to some other guy and let her touch his waste and see how much fat he had, and the whole time him and her still hugged
2007-01-17 09:07:08 · 11 answers · asked by toralm1 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
why do you suppose he hugged her and started that belly comparison? Was that his way of telling her he is still interested in her, or he still likes her? When he hugged her and started to compare, she hugged him and they were side to side talking about it.??
2007-01-17 09:08:43 · update #1
Hrrm.. I guess you can say I had a problem kind of like this. My husband was still talking to one of his ex girlfriends and I never said anything and come to find out she is in love with him and so on... Well I told him my feelings and he stopped all contact with her at once. If your husband knows how you feel he should respect you and stop all contact. This is how i look at the situation. My husband and I have had a talk that if there is a friend in our life that one of does not like then we need not talk to them. Not because of fear the other might cheat but out of Respect. If you have no trust you dont have a relationship and in a relationship you must always have respect as well.
2007-01-17 09:19:19 · answer #1 · answered by Rebecca B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because of a belly comparison, I would NOT accuse him of cheating. When I was pregnant, everbody compared, men and women, to see how "pregnant" they looked compared to me. Im NOT saying he is innocent though. If he made out with her while you two were together in the past, he could be again. But, if it was befor you were together, you cant hold it over him.... I have always believed that our "womens intuition" is usually pretty accurate. If you really believe he is unfaithful, he probably is. Just dont accuse until you are sure, if he's not and you nag to much, he might just because you think he is. Only you can know what to do for sure. Good luck.
2007-01-17 09:22:45 · answer #2 · answered by froggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They have a very close/open relationship. If everyone is okay w/ them being intimate or atleast forgiven whichever the case may be, then why are you questioning it? What they did was in public and in view of everyone else so obviously they didn't think anything of it so it didn't mean anything. Of course if you guys were into that kind of lifestyle then there is no reason for you to be questioning it in the first place.
2007-01-17 09:19:18 · answer #3 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the actual shown reality that you stated females in common words imagine about sex some cases a week shows that you have not been with many women..or perchance you have not been with a woman in any respect. No offense. you're incorrect about asking psychologists, because i understand a mess of psychologists which couldn't accept as true with you. the reason why there are not many commonplace female newborn molesters or rapists is because no individual comments them. i understand those who were molested by technique of their moms, step-moms, and aunts, yet they didn't wish the international to charm to close their organisation. Plus, you're forgetting that maximum females do not want to confess how in many cases they imagine about sex. in the experience that they say they imagine about sex familiar, adult men are in basic terms going to imagine that they have a probability with them. i do not tell each guy that i'm a sex addict and that i respect porn, because then they are in basic terms going to seem at me as someone to get sex from.
2016-10-15 09:15:38 · answer #4 · answered by kincade 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont see how you can still trust him alone, let alone with her! i would have kicked her swiftly in the butt and kicked him you know where-- i think the belly thing is just weird and stupid, but the hugging- it could be friendly or it could be them wanting to be close.. i dont know really, but i would confront him about all of this and tell him how uncomfortable it makes you. you shouldnt stand for this! you deserve better than that!
2007-01-17 09:15:39 · answer #5 · answered by bourke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So your husband cheated on you with a friend and you still have contact with her in social settings? You're crazy if this is the case.
2007-01-17 09:14:58 · answer #6 · answered by micg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The belly comparison is cute, its the making out that would have me worried.
2007-01-17 09:13:13 · answer #7 · answered by Heather Y 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was making fun of hisself like he looked pregnant (you know how some mean have a beer belly?) that is what he meant, if he wanted her to know he was liking her he done that months ago when they made out.
2007-01-17 09:12:58 · answer #8 · answered by ஐ♥Julian'sMommy♥ஐ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be very angry after seeing that.... especially with their history. My props to you for still being okay with him...
2007-01-17 09:13:19 · answer #9 · answered by NewMommy!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with any of this. Relax. (But check those e-mails.)
2007-01-17 09:12:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋