I mean what if he tells you that he only did it in college and was curious but he says he is completely 100% straight? Or he says "
I only kissed a guy cuz I was drunk" Or he says, I was pressured into it when I was living in the dorm"? Or he says "I was only doing it to get attention from girls"? So do you still think this guy is cool? By the way I have never ever and never will experiment homo-sex. Just thought you wanted to know where I stand. Please check back for my answer tomorrow for my reason for this question.
2007-01-17 08:54:36 · 26 answers · asked by Believe me 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
When I was dating, the issue wasn't what somebody had done, but how much I felt he was into ME. I also evaluated how likely he was to need an HIV test. As long as he was clean and into me, the rest wouldnt' really matter.
Short answer: case-by-case basis. Some definitely hit the "too gay for me" mark.
2007-01-17 09:02:06 · answer #1 · answered by sarcastro1976 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how you say it. If you say "I kissed a guy because I was drunk", then that's kind of understandable. It's probably not like a turnoff or anything, just a fun fact. If you said it to get attention, then it makes you seem like a cocky jerk and THAT'S a turnoff. Also, depending on how long they've known the guy, how much they liked him before they found that out, and whether or not he has gay tendencies, then he's still cool.
2016-03-29 02:05:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its more of a friendship than an attraction . Many people experiement on differen't social issues when they are young.
Many are afraid to admit their own experiences ( with sex) and there are many who just don't understand. Its really up to the person on what they like and don't like.
Many women are afraid to get involved with a man who is admitted having a bisexual history, for the fear of leaving her for his lover or a new lover who is male..
Straight Men, on the other hand, don't mind it as much if there was a chance of being with two females.
2007-01-17 09:16:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not that I can answer from a girl's point of view, but the odds are not in her favor if she falls for this guy. Given our homophobic society, most guys don't "experiment" with other guys unless it's something they really want to do, at least subconsciously, for fear of being labeled gay. Millions of gay guys have gone through this- they marry a girl and raise a family because that's what they think society/family/church/friends expect of them, only to have it fall apart sometime down the road.
2007-01-17 09:07:21 · answer #4 · answered by kena2mi 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
girls want to think that you are 100% into them.
I'm bi and have experimented with blokes... on the whole girls don't like it... apart from some COOL ones on this page who think it's hot, where are you in my life?????
You should defo tell a girl you a bi before it all gets too heavy though... it's not fair to spring that one on her just before your wedding.
The RIGHT girl, won't mind. She will even love you ENTIRELY for who you are, but she's not likely to actually want you to like other guys. Would you want a girl who was bi?
2007-01-17 12:33:11 · answer #5 · answered by psychedelic_fighter 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hell I'm not a girl but I my ex found out about me being bisexual and she still wanted to be with me so I guess is in a case by case basis. My wife now, know about it and she say that is better to share me every one in a while than loose me.
2007-01-17 09:06:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well no we dont think that is cool because it only makes us think your gay cause thats how it starts out as just "curiousity". And especially having sex with a guy your just flat out gay theres no curious in that!!
2007-01-17 09:00:59 · answer #7 · answered by rayshawnda 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People should talk that one out on a need to know basis.
You might come across as prejudiced and limit your experiences if you walk around stating openly your preferences.
2007-01-17 09:02:40 · answer #8 · answered by holly j 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am truly convinced that this hypothetical guy is in fact you, but dont be ashamed of you're gay experimenting, I just wouldn't tell every girl I've dated about it. Comming from a gay man's point of view that is an knowing women as well as I do!
2007-01-17 09:02:46 · answer #9 · answered by jscott0919 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I don't mind them at all, but that doesn't mean that I specifically seek out guys that did/did not do so.
As long as they're clean (in the bathing and non-STD sense), treat me well, and have a sense of humor, there's nothing else that matters.
2007-01-17 09:00:14 · answer #10 · answered by No Sugar Added 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋