I'm a second in a sibling. I've 21y old bro, 8y old bro and 5y old sis. I'm 16y old. My mum died last year. My dad is a truck driver and always not arround. Most of the time our elder brother will look after us. As he controlled the house, sometime I personally he's over controlled. For example I forgot to pick up our lil sis from kindergarten (my duty in our house). As the kindergarten is nearby our home her teacher sent her home and my brother was shocked as he's at home at that time. As I got back, he straight away slapped me once i openned the door, then only he told me where I gone wrong. I think he should at least speak or ask me before started to slap me?I hate him for doing that.But I dare not fight him back. Cause I know he done a lot for our family.I'm also scared of him btw.But what I hate the most is, he even slapped me in public when he saw me smoking last week.I know it's my fault, but i'm not happy the way he treated me.Beside that he
2007-01-17 08:53:42 · 15 answers · asked by Jonathan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I am really sorry to hear about your situation. I think the best thing to do is to pick a moment to talk to your brother about this. The best time is when you are having a good time together so that you are both calm and in a good mood. Tell him that u appreciate all that he does for the family and that you like doing activities with him. Then you can say that it hurts you when he hits you. I mean it upsets you. Tell him that you want to do the right thing and that you want to learn. Ask him to talk to you instead of hitting you. I wish you good luck. If this is no good then try talking to your father when he is around, but tell him that you don't want him to be angry with your brother. That could make it worse.
2007-01-17 09:07:39 · answer #1 · answered by andybloggs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your Father how he is treating you and let him know that boys/men should never ever hit a girl/woman for any reason! Ask your Dad if this is how he thinks he should treat his wife when he gets one! Yes, you should have received a punishment for smoking, but your brother has no right to slap or hit you. Your brother does have a lot on his shoulders, but he needs to find another way to get his point across. So sorry you lost your Mom, and that you are going through this. Best wishes.
2007-01-17 09:00:33 · answer #2 · answered by wish I were 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I actually have information for you.....your brother is a grown and criminal man or woman and also you're a minor. Your brother is assaulting you, on your own room, at the same time as you sleep. He has used a weapon (hitting you with a pole). And so, why have not you referred to as the police? it really is a criminal journey and an noticeably severe crime hostile to you. at the same time as the police come to check out, your mom needs to signal the grievance on your behalf because you're a minor and ask the police to take your brother out of the domicile. He can stay at a homeless guard that the police will take him to. Then, replace the locks on your doorways. If he tries to come back decrease back in, call the police lower back and tell them that he now not lives with you because of his criminal attacks on you. seem, you won't be able to restore this and he has probable been this manner all of his existence. that's basically gotten worse and worse. some day he will heavily damage someone because no man or woman places any limits on his habit....it truly is why the police will placed limits on his habit now. in case you kill him, even in self protection, you'd be charged and tried for this crime. The jury will opt for to attraction to close why you probably did not contain the police at the same time as your brother assaulted you? Why did not you do the criminal route to get him placed in the back of bars and punished for this crime? do not develop right into a criminal your self. call the police....enable them take care of him each and each and every time. I desire you all the perfect.
2016-10-17 01:57:27 · answer #3 · answered by sicilia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, he did that to you? Does he even care for you? Thats a violation of respect, and you two should talk and have a dinner at a resturant and w0ork it out. I mean, thats crazy, he and YOU should concil finding. But i might say, it was a very bad choice to start smoking, your just killing yourself doingt that alone.
2007-01-17 08:59:29 · answer #4 · answered by jared kandlstorfer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell someone in authority, like a policeman or a teacher. Talk to him and your dad. If that doesn't work, beat him with a hammer when he goes to sleep. Works every time.
2007-01-17 09:09:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
im so sorry that you are being hit by your brother
it sounds to me like he is under alot of pressure and you are the one that he is taking out his frustrations on
can you talk to your dad?
if you think he will listen to you, TALK TO HIM!!!
and if you otherwise have any sort of brotherly relationship with your brother, try writing him a letter and explaining to him how you feel
good luck
2007-01-17 09:01:41 · answer #6 · answered by iammissmess 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
AWW OMG
welll brothers fight n all but yeah.
maybe you should talk to him about it or just like
telll your dad when u find the time?
idunno-->i might be wrong but its worth a shot.
2007-01-17 08:59:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kick him in the nuts and slap him back.
2007-01-17 09:04:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to him about that or talk to your dad..
If you have to, get the cops involved.
Really sorry to hear about this though..
2007-01-17 08:58:06 · answer #9 · answered by thegreathales 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk to your dad or talk to him and tell him that you just can't take it any more .
or call 911
2007-01-17 08:57:44 · answer #10 · answered by Donets'k 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋