When is the "safest" time to have sex? Safest meaning to not get pregnant.?

Question

I am engaged and we already have one baby and i am not ready for number two. i haven't been on birthcontrol cuz of other issues, and condoms suck!!! plus how romantic is that to ask your husband to put a jimmy on? so when am i the safest????

i am getting back on the pill today accually but i am worried about the effect on my body, plus i smoke i am only 21 so i don't have as much to worry about if i was over 35. but smoking is just another problem all together.

Answer 1

Right after your period is the safest time, assuming you have a normal 28 day cycle. Just don't get busy between days 12-15, or you may have another bambino

Answer 2

there's a such element as "risk-free days" -- take it from a useful person of organic family members making plans -- however the only thank you to establish approximately what's risk-free and volatile is to be attentive to your physique's very own alerts approximately fertility. employing a undeniable previous counting approach isn't solid because of the fact of changes on your cycle... in spite of while you're oftentimes completely familiar, there is often of project of an unusual month someplace in there. while you're going strictly by using counting, inspite of the incontrovertible fact that, i could say that 5 days in the previous ovulation is slicing it too close.... fantastically considering that sperm can stay as much as a week, and you ought to ovulate an afternoon or 2 earlier than you anticipate. in case you have an interest in employing purely the organic rhythm of your cycle as a potential of warding off being pregnant, i could study approximately medical methods of doing so. inspite of what human beings say, they do exist and that they do artwork.

Answer 3

i went on the pill and it was the wost experience of my life. so i understand. but condoms are fantastic, they only interupt sex for about a second, you can see if they have failed which if u put them on right they probably wont, it can be a laugh picking out colours and shapes and laughing at ur fella with a kiwi flavoured ding-dong they also hold back my fellas orgasm, which is handy (makes it last throught the entire advert break) you can have sex anytime and there easy to remember. dont risk it and Learn to love the condom, millions of us do.

Answer 4

there multiple forms of birth control from a patch to a device that is placed under the skin for several months, so you have plenty of choice, check them out, as you know what the safest time of the month not to get pregnant is , its when you do not have sex

Answer 5

still the safest when you put a condom on.

you should learn how to roll it out for him, i can do this in a few second without us having to brake looking at eachother lol

i dont need to look, slip on its about a 30 second matter from tearing the packet and slipping it on.

i also have one son, im not ready for a second. and pills messed up my hormone...

Answer 6

My wife and I tried that when we were first married and ended up pregnant. I would advise against it, because you can never be sure. I don't like condoms either, but now I wear one every time until we decide we are ready for another child.

Answer 7

Directly after your period, your uterus lining hasnt re-developed. Your 14th day after your period is your most fertile, but it varies, so anything around or after that mark is risky. Its all risky without birth control.

Answer 8

ok avoid the days 10-16 you should be fine catholic girl here lol

Answer 9

About a week after your period

Answer 10

no time is safe.