Girl (V) says guy (J) is the father of her baby. V says they were together on such and such date, J says he wasn't with her for two weeks before that date. Me and V do not get along and me and J are friends. J hasn't lied to me that I know of but V is so determined that J is the father. V's doctor says she is right with the LMP which would make J not the father if he isn't lying about being with her that last time. She is not cooperating about having a paternity test done and J says he will get one even if he has to sue her. If she knows he is not the father, why is she accusing him so much? If he was with her that night, why does he want a paternity test so bad? Any other viewpoints would be nice...
2007-01-17 08:48:27 · 6 answers · asked by Babygirl 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
She hasn't had baby yet. She is due Feb. 10, 2007...
2007-01-17 08:49:21 · update #1
If he is willing to have a test done and she is not, more than likely she isn't 100% positive about him being the father. I would trust the one willing to prove it more than I would the one scared to. Looks like v is just wanting j really bad and will stop at nothing to get him. I would watch out for this girl!
2007-01-17 08:54:45 · answer #1 · answered by kris10 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here's a viewpoint that may not be popular, but will serve *you* well -- stay out of it. It's not your baby, and unless J is your husband, your life isn't going to have any impact in any way regardless of who fathered the child. It's a sordid, nasty mess, but it's for V and J to deal with, and they need to find their own information about how to best proceed to get the answers and solutions that they want from this.
2007-01-17 16:59:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I mean no offense at all, but you may want to clarify your question. You know the story, but readers don't and that is hard to follow.
If you clarify you'll get better answers.
It sounds like one man just wants to know if he is the father, that's not wrong. Someone told you all men lie. All people lie at times, some more than others. I am the mother of six and my girls fib more than my boys, and they are better at it too!
2007-01-17 16:58:07 · answer #3 · answered by winfielder74 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All men lie.....And in this case someone is. From a woman's point of view I would be angry if I knew that someone was the father and he was denying it.
2007-01-17 16:54:47 · answer #4 · answered by wheezerthill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seek dna test help after the baby is born to resolve your doubt.consult doctor
2007-01-17 17:17:14 · answer #5 · answered by subramanyam b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too much drama thats what i think, If you are just the friend why do you care so much? its really none of your business, Maybe "V" should have kept her legs closed and maybe "J" should have wrapped it up, bottom line.
2007-01-17 16:55:27 · answer #6 · answered by jess_n_flip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋