I am in my early 20s and im an undergraduate college student. I have dated a few guys in my past and have had several crushes nothing as been too serious. I have never wanted to be with a girl before until recently. I don't really understand the feelings i am having. I am scared to be with her because i don't understand but i like her and she likes me. I know i should talk to her about it but i don't know how. Anyone been in this situation or similar? I would appreciate advice or any comments at all thanks for viewing.
2007-01-17 08:30:07 · 6 answers · asked by Janice 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Ur full of ****...
2007-01-17 08:46:05 · answer #1 · answered by incognitas8 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is absolutely no need to label yourself. Many men who identify as being gay have the ocasional fling with a woman. Many men who identify as being straight have sex with men. This doesn't change the perception they have of themselves. Only you can decide what, if any, label you want to attach to yourself.
Explore your sexuality, it doesn't come with limitations. If you want to try it with girls, do so, it will help you understand yourself. Don't stick a label on yourself and try to live up to whatever others see that label to mean. You are a sexual being, forget the prefixes and enjoy yourself.
2007-01-17 09:56:32 · answer #2 · answered by tentofield 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think bi is a very natural feeling that most people have at some time in their life - it's only the religious right that has a problem with it. I'd say have a romp with her and see how you feel - what can it hurt?
2007-01-17 08:40:18 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. Brooke 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if you do mess with her and you love it then you are a bi, if you want men too. if you mess with her and it's not what you thought it'd be then you are just having a curiousity. Just be honest with her and let her know what you are thinking.
2007-01-17 08:35:20 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs. J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
curious is when u feel like u wanna try somethin new
bi is when u feel emotionally and sexually attracted to the both sex
2007-01-17 08:41:07 · answer #5 · answered by Tara 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it if u want too!!!
if u are both ok with it then its fine
:)
2007-01-17 13:45:15 · answer #6 · answered by ceecee800 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋