I really secretly like my friends boyfriend. I wanna go out with him. What should I do?
2007-01-17 08:20:38 · 7 answers · asked by Kristen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First you have to think about how much you like your friend. Because as soon as you go out with her bf then you won't have a friend anymore.It's not even cool to go out with a friend's ex boy friend.So you better look at your priorities & he better like you too or you will lose everyone you care about!!!
2007-01-17 08:29:47 · answer #1 · answered by quiz buckler scoop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it and be a good friend. If you go after him then all your friends will call you a slut! And that is what makes girls sluts, for taking boys over their girlfriends. You will never have a good relationship with a boy that you really like if you take him from your friend, it will just cause drama and make you a crappy friend
2007-01-17 16:39:36 · answer #2 · answered by micah z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! Are you for real?! Man, I am in the same situation.
What I do: I told my friend. She was fine with it. B/c she knew that I wouldn't have him cheat on her with me even though he would. Well, I had to try and find out what kind of girls he likes (as in pretty or not pretty) . He likes... Sorta kinda pretty girls.
SORTA!!! And yeah I was like, "hey I'm sorta kinda pretty"
But, now they are broken up. YAY! And she doesn't care that I like him she still does. So in a way we are sorta sharing him. And man is he LOVING it. (no I don't mean sexually sharing) I mean flirting!!!
2007-01-17 16:34:16 · answer #3 · answered by ☆ Sarah ☆ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well honestly... dont give up a friendship for a guy, and if hes actually dating your friend at this point and time.. THEN BACK OFF!! one of my close friends did that to me last year.she lied if i asked her if she liked him, but she was talking to him about dating behind my back. it hurt so much to hear him admit to it, and to hear her say that she did nothing wrong. first thing you should do is find a guy that is your own. you dont need to fall for your friends guy. that really doesnt speak too highly of you. second you should get all thoughts of dating him out of your head. if they break up, ten to one your friend will be heart broken... itll be salt in an open wound if you date him.. no offense... but i think its pretty low... i perosnally know haw badly it hurts to have a friend stab you in the back like that... her and i are friends... but i dont let her anywhere near my current boyfriend... i trust him with my life... but i dont trust her with holding a penny for me...if you value a good reputation friends, and respect, then dont go for this guy..
<3 Mo
2007-01-17 16:42:52 · answer #4 · answered by Morgan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a 3 some with the two of them. That way you can keep your friend and have her boyfriend!
2007-01-17 16:28:55 · answer #5 · answered by bbopper 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
w/e you do dont cheat that is sooooooo shallow and mean im not saying that you would do that but dont it could ruin your friend ship invite your friend over and talk to her about it and try to tell her the truth.Truth is good but dont cheat hope i helped
2007-01-17 16:29:49 · answer #6 · answered by ducky girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do nothing. It wouldn't be right to come between your friend and her guy.
2007-01-17 16:37:15 · answer #7 · answered by ravenheart737 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋