this guy slept with my wife and i want revenge on him i dont want to hurt him but i do want to haunt him for a while to make him think about what he has done by stepping into my marriage and family he knew she was married and screwed he anyways does any one have ideas
2007-01-17 08:17:26 · 13 answers · asked by demorider2003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Put the blame where it belongs -- on your wife. Haunt her for awhile and make her think about what she has done by stepping outside her marriage and family. She knew she was married and screwed the guy anyway.
2007-01-17 08:28:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately, it takes two to tango my friend. There are two sides to every story and perhaps you have only heard one. Either way two people are in the wrong not just one. One is the giver the other the taker. So, to resolve this you must first forgive your wife, (and that means do not throw it up into her face at every chance you get) and forgive the other person. NOT an easy thing to do but it can be done. You will find great relief and in closing Vengeance is mine--sayeth the Lord. Need I say more.
2007-01-17 16:29:52 · answer #2 · answered by sylviavnpttn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why? Your wife made a decision to sleep with this guy, it's not his fault. Your wife said forget about you I'm going to sleep with somebody else. She made the choice. Didn't your wife know she was married to you? Come on, the guy is only 10 percent at fault at least. You better check your wife. How do you know he's the only one? Just by chance you caught that one incident. You better wake up to reality.
2007-01-17 16:45:26 · answer #3 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Remember the old saying "it takes two to tango" well she was there too and is just as guilty as he is.Why waste you time on revenge on him, you have a more important decision to make. Are you staying with your wife? Can you trust her to not do that again with him or anyone else. How can you have sex with your wife after she did that to you? AS you can see, you must think this out like this and make your decision on staying with her and always asking yourself these questions or get a divorce and move on.
2007-01-17 16:28:30 · answer #4 · answered by sirmrmagic 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your time, he stepped into your marriage because your wife let him in. She opened up her legs for him, he didn't force her to do anything that she didn't want done to her by him. Protect your heart and see where life takes you.
2007-01-17 16:38:49 · answer #5 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried putting some blame on your wife also. It takes two to cheat. Try dumping your wife idiot. Don't blame the other guy for your wife's inability to close her legs. Not like he forced her.
2007-01-17 16:24:02 · answer #6 · answered by helloitsme 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
your question happens every 1 second to all who wants to post such questions. the truth is, better wake up and face the reality rather than trying to find fault in someone. these wives are sure to be questioned. try to make them perfect. no other medicine.
2007-01-17 16:52:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya how about punish your wife instead of him since she is the one who took vows with you and made promises of love and devotion to you...that guy doesnt owe you sh*t, but your wife does, so honestly, its her that you should be furious with, not him.
2007-01-17 16:48:48 · answer #8 · answered by christine a 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to a magazine store and swipe some subscription cards from the gay mags and fill them out with his name and work address.
Sign him up for all types of magazines and bombard his house and work.
2007-01-17 16:32:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yeah---i have an idea...be mad at the wife...she was the one who was married and slept around
2007-01-17 16:29:20 · answer #10 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋