One of my dearest friends was chatting to a person older than her by 30years . he is married and she is married and then suddenly she told me she loves him ...she doesn't show that to him ,she treates him as a friend but she loves him ... is that love ? what can i advice her to do ? she has her life and he has his ... they couldn't meet ......they are defferent in every thing ......he didn't even see here picture . is my friend mad ...... i find her so
2007-01-17 08:14:08 · 13 answers · asked by nona 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Love had no age. Being married that's where the limit is. She probably is missing some attention in her marriage and he he is giving her that trough words. She needs to talk to her husband, about what she's lacking before is too late. Problems to be worked on.
2007-01-17 08:20:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes honey you're friend has issues.....I'm not going to say that internet dating isn't going to work or anything, but the fact that he is married and she's married and she had the nerve to go in this chat room and talk to this guy. She has problems. Where's her husband at while she's doing all this? That's not love. Love isn't something that's forbidden, how can you love someone you have no chance with? What about her husband? Does she even care about his feelings? Try to talk her out of it, her feelings for this guy can be toxic. She's no good...if you really love her, go to her husband and tell him. He deserves to know. Maybe there's something he can do to salvage what's left of their marriage so she won't have to go online and find someone else. Or you could let her come to her own realization, because relationships like that never work. Good luck sweetie with whatever you decide.
2007-01-17 08:20:47 · answer #2 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say the man knows your friend is 'weak' and he is trying to get her to be unfaithful to her husband, since he is older he is smarter in the sense he knows how to manipulate her, and yes she is mad I think, and very imature emotionaly to be able to fall in love with a man who is that much older and she hasnt ever relly met. also being married heself and him being married. Tell her that she needs to stop and think that she is in fact being selfish and she needs to realize that other people besides herself anf him are involved here, (his wife, her husband) those other people will be hurt and left with no exsplanation for what has happend, or they will leave if this whole thing goes anyfurther. Your friends needs to put herself in his wifes place and get her head in order.
2007-01-17 08:40:05 · answer #3 · answered by Big C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would love to say that love is blind and is not bound by age but they are both married and your friend should definitely put all that love into her marriage instead of wasting it online on someone she might never come face to face with!
2007-01-17 08:20:57 · answer #4 · answered by green_baby_dragon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
age is just a number. If i know that someone is not the right one for me and i know that they arent someone that i want to spend my life with, then i dont waste my time. i move on. obviously she has something for this guy, maybe she should go for it. tell this guy how she feels, see what he says, and then she will have to go form there. obviously, she isnt very happy with her marriage if she is wanting to date someone else. She has to be certain though, that she knows what she is doing. and you can help her with that. ask her if she is happy with her marriage and if she realizes that if she does really love this guy and wants to be with him, then her marriage will be over. just talk to her! i hope she makes the right choice, but only she will know.
2007-01-17 08:46:09 · answer #5 · answered by BRITT! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age doesn't matter but is she is already married that might be hard. I hope she doesn't go looking for people that are better than the next. then she will never be happy.
2007-01-17 08:56:51 · answer #6 · answered by ♫ pros and cons of breathing ♫ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has a great need of moral bounderies as does he. She is obviously lacking in a lot to be looking outside of her own marraige for affection. Friends are those who are caring enough to tell it as it really is. Tell your friend this is destructive to her marraige and herself and just a bandaid for something more serious in her life.
2007-01-17 08:51:20 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can & yes I have. Age makes no difference. The heart knows no age limits.
2007-01-17 08:18:19 · answer #8 · answered by earthangel_candy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age ain't nothing but a number!
2007-01-17 08:59:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anybody can love anybody. Age does not matter.
2007-01-17 08:17:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋