Why do so many people make fun of me?

Question

I get 100s really often, and people think that I have no social life and constantly say that about me. The truth is that I have good memory. I'm really bad at sports and I have a hard time playing sports because I have asthma, so that's another thing. I barely have anything in common with most others. I don't have many friends, and they are all just smart like me. I'm tired of getting insulted day and night. Will anyone help?

And my parents don't actually let me do anything. I'm basically stuck home all day. And I have to sneak onto the computer just to ask this question. I have no game systems whatsoever either. My dad makes tons of money, but I don't get anything from it.
I also see no point in listening to music, chatting on the internet or on the phone, or dating or anything like that.
I'm probably just too different, right?

Oh, and I'm in seventh grade, if anyone wants to know.

Answer 1

sounds like you have a lack of confidence in yourself. Nagativity in yourself reflects on the outside. Open up more. Find one true friend, that's worth more than having hundreds of fake ones. As for the insults you may encounter, people are often cruel to divert the attention away from their own faults. Don't worry about them too much.

Answer 2

1. Whats The Last Thing You Bought ? Skinny Jeans :) 2. What Color Is Your Phone? Pink 3. Whens The Last Time U Went Swimming? Last week 4. What Color Is Your Shirt? Black white and gray 5. Have You Ever Liked The Jonas? They're ok. 6. Are You Wearing Socks? No 7. Whats The Last Thing u Ate? Chips 8. Would u Dye Ur Hair Purple 4 Your (GF or BF) Yeah :) 9. Last Thing u Said Out Loud? "Did you find it?" 10. Can u Dance? A lot of people say I dance good but I just do it for fun so I don't know.

Answer 3

There is nothing wrong with being too different. You will far excell later in life if you can recognize the gift that you have been given. You do not need a bunch of friends, as 1 or 2 really goods ones are all you need. When they have the same interests that you do, that is a plus. I work for a very famous woman who is an astronaut. She has gone into space 4 times, and now is the commander in chief at NASA. She is an educator to young people in hopes that they will become interested in the space program. If she could speak to you, she would encourage you to stay interested in your studies. Make the best grades you can as this will enable you to be able to do anything that you want in life.

Answer 4

Even if you are different than anyone you know, why would you want to be like anyone else? If everyone were the same it would be a boring world. You just sound like you have your head on straight. Getting A's is something to be proud of. You're only in 7th grade, so even if you don't have much of a social life now, you will when you get into high school. Just make sure you learn to balance your social life and your studies so you can maintain those A's. You're going to go far.

Answer 5

i'm in the same grade. i don't like sports, most conversations seem pointless and boring. most people seem unusually stupid to me. and the stuff they talk about is unimportant. i have really good grades so people pay A LOT of attention to me when there are tests coming up. i don't get bullied at all (girls usually don't since the bullies tend to be boys) i mean, a few comments every once in a long while. very few friends and not particularly intelligent at that, just people that befriend me. i tend to draw the people that are really defensive about their religion. (which sucks, i'm atheist) and i don't listen to the music most other people like or is popular at the moment (enya, celtic woman,carole king, bob dylan, simon and garfunkle and the arrogant worms, who no one's even heard of)and every one always tells me i'm shy and i only don't talk cuz the conversation bores me or i have nothing to say.

so. your answer. they make fun of you cuz you're different. you don't quite fit into the stereotypes society has placed in everyones mind. people might consider you nerdy (asthmatic, good grades, smart friends, no computer games) and i hate to say this, but it is kinda funny to watch some people get mad. especially if the victim is considered unsociable (shyness is mistaken for that) aloof, or snobbish. so. there's your answer but no advice. sorry

Answer 6

I can basically relate. I get teased a lot too because getting 100s is easy, although some people are just too stupid to.

But it doesn't really matter. If you're getting A+'s, then one day, you'll probably get a really good job and earn a lot of money. Then start laughing in their faces after you see them working at minimum wage.

They're just jealous. When you're smart, people start envying you, and they want to make themselves feel better that way, and to push you down. Just ignore them, and as long as you do well, it shouldn't matter.

Answer 7

Ok you might not like this but im going to give you some easy steps to fitting in. First of all, fitting in is all about being like everyone else, and as bad as that may sound its true. Youre main goal should be not to stick out in a crowd. Blending is everything. Second i would recommend lowering some grades, this is a very tricky thing to do. Just dont do well on a few assignments and take your grades to anything below 100%. If youre really desperate find a class that you dont care about and just flat out bomb it. From what ive observed, most kids today arent big on talking about how smart they are, but how bad they do and still get by. Im not saying that you have to start doing bad in school and fail and become a loser, just play it up a bit, make it look like you have to work hard for it. Then you have to change how you dress. i would suggest a pair of lose pant (not the kind that show your boxers) and a hoodie or a t-shirt. The kind of tshirt changes by what clique you want to join, preps is american eagle and other ppl like band shirts and ect.. in order to fit in past that you need to find something that other people are interested in that you can do, i would suggest music and taking up guitar or drums, since youre not so good at sports. and listen to alot of rock and roll ;) (personal favorite). One of the most crucial steps is to confront your parents, you need to show them that youre getting older and that you want more freedom, doing a little worse on your grades will help them catch on. Just be careful how you put it to them. parents can get really worked up over small things. If you need to, then take drastic measures and sneak out. if you dont get cought, good, but if you do then dont be afraid to confront your parents.
Lastly, be prepared to do some things that you would not normally do in front of other people. im not saying you have to run around naked or smoke and drink, but your attitude and vocabulary may have to change. just try to become more like other people, and dont be afraid to talk to girls... and get contacts ;)

Answer 8

Keep up the good work! This is how you should be all the way. Don't listen to anyone. They are simply JEALOUS and you do have a social life. They just say that because they want your success to seem like something bad. Take care my friend and good job. :)

Answer 9

Bro just do you and **** everybody standing against you people follow a leader you can be that person. I used to get picked on fosho i started doing my own thing and man look at me now a senior with all the friends. bro any questions just email me [e-mail] ill help rise to the top.

Answer 10

Don't listen to them haters, if they had anything to do they would be smart and wiser. They can't be like you thats why they envy. And it doesnt matter what kind of friends you have as long as you know their not fake.