Do you think it's okay for bisexual's to have a b/f and a g/f at the same time if they know about each other? I've had several b/f's who havn't cared at all and a few who have. I've had one g/f who didn't like it and a few who didn't mind at all. SO what's the right answer???
2007-01-17 07:49:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Personally as a bisexual I only maintain one relationship at a time. But if it's ok within the relationship of 3 that you have then I guess it's ok for you and who you're with. There really isn't a right answer to that question it's all a matter of opinion.
2007-01-17 08:26:10 · answer #1 · answered by Broken hearted 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If both people are okay with it then yeah it's okay, I'm bi and I still wouldn't be okay with it. I think love should be about dedicating yourself to one person. Do you hear people saying heterosexuality entitles them to lots of partners of the opposite sex so why should bisexuality entitle someone to lots?
In the end a bi person is just as acceptable to be in a polyamorous relationship as anyone else, no more no less. I don't mind poly people, I just hate it when they use their sexuality as an excuse. So from now on if you want to be with more than one person say it's because you still want both, but I wouldn't expect a serious relationship to be to successful under those circumstances because more than likely someone will want you for themself. Just remember it's you not your sexuality that's the reason.
The right answer will differ from person to person. I think that someone should only have one lover at a time but if everyone in the relationship is okay with it then what's the harm, but if your original partner has done that little thing called falling in love then why would they want to share you. Polygamy just doesn't make sense to me but I hope I helped at least a little. Just to clarify because I got a little off track there, just so long as everybody in the relationship is okay with it.
2007-01-17 09:46:10 · answer #2 · answered by Rageling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think it's ok! Hun, you do what is right for you, as long as all parties involved know up front. I currently have a girlfriend who is engaged to a wonderful man who treats her like a queen. I'm very happy for the both of them!
2007-01-18 23:56:14 · answer #3 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, being bisexual is fantastic. countless human beings will harass you because of it, declaring opt for a aspect, give up taking section in on each and each and every fringe of the fence, blah blah blah. yet actual, resembling them, you may not help the very truth your interested in both sexes and could supply both aspect a chance. Gender might want to not be counted, happiness and love concerns
2016-10-17 01:56:59 · answer #4 · answered by sicilia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no universal right answer. If everyone is ok with it, then there is no problem. However, if someone doesn't like it, then you have to make a decision, whether you want them or someone else.
You need to be honest, and tell all partners if they are not your sole partner, and if they are uncomfortable with it then respect their wishes, and you'll have to make a choice.
2007-01-17 07:54:38 · answer #5 · answered by Tom :: Athier than Thou 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If they all know about each other, and they all practice safe sex, then where is the problem? However, if someone begins to become more serious about the other person there could be complications in the future.
2007-01-17 07:52:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
The secret lies in comunication. Speak about it before you get committed into a relationship. The other party has the right to decide if they can put up with it or not.
2007-01-17 07:53:17 · answer #7 · answered by M'lady 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, in fact I'm a bi guy looking for a guy and a girl.
Maybe it just depends on peoples preferences?
2007-01-17 08:33:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is if they both agree and get along then it's not a problem, if one or both has a problem then it's probably not ok at that time. Just talk to them and be honest.
2007-01-17 08:23:03 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs. J 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think as long as you don't tell one that they are the only one in your life it's okay, but to mislead someone is a lie and wrong. You wouldn't like it if it were done to you, would you?
2007-01-17 07:53:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋