Have you allowed your past to get in your present and ruin your future?

Answer 1

Trust your self.If some lesson in the past makes you pretty cautious about a situation now,That is your personal warning system telling you , you have already learned this lesson and maybe you shouldn't do it again.don't doubt your decisions.Just trust that your right.That's intuition.

Answer 2

Yes, unfortunately my past has returned to the present and has started to ruin my future..

Answer 3

Yea sure, it didnt ruin my future but it was close. I let my fiances past get in relationships way. It almost killed it because I cannot live with the fact that he love 3some stuff and he been in many 3somes before, he asked me if i would ever do something like that, etc. I hate that stuff, because i believe that it is something that was suppose to be done before marriage or any serious relationship. It is something that gets done when you young and you not serious with girls like that so you are not worried about losing one for another, feel me? Of course he didnt pressure me into it and he said it was a past and all but i still made a big deal about it because i know its part of him and he probably wouldnt mind to repeat something like that. I know i cant change his mind and it kills me so i keep bringing it up and it makes him mad. Until one day we were arguin about something else and i happend to bring this stuff up by asking sort of questions about how was it, details, who were girls, etc. He got all mad about this on some stuff that i cant forget it and its his past, blah blah, we almost broke up that day. We didnt though but it kind of made us a little distant for some time that i start worrying if we are going to last for any longer at all. I dont know it this relates to your question but i think its a good example. It was not my past though, because i know that one have a chance to ruin something i been working on for so long....good question though!!!

Answer 4

Yes i used too, it ruined every potential relationship i had then i gave up just stopped living in the past means you never move on.

Answer 5

No but my ex did. He can't let go of the past and it has spilled over into our present causing our future to be null and void. Its sad too because we were together for 2 yrs. but he found something out about my past and can't let it go and day after day he talks about it but I can't live like that. I told him that the past is the past and that we should move forward but he just wouldn't let it go and I couldn't try to fix something that happened in my past.

Answer 6

yea i have when i think of the horrible things that other guys did to me in a relationship i tend to think there all gonna be the same even if theyre not and most new guys hate this and will move on so i wonder what would have been

Answer 7

If it truly is quite a quarrel, we benefit no longer some thing. even as it truly is a few thing else... a readjusting procedure, for instance... then we are able to benefit good issues... like genuine peace and authentic integration. :-)

Answer 8

NO