I was with this guy for three years and was absolutely in love with him, but in his second year at college he met new people and did a complete 180 on me. He never called and always hung out with this girl and said nothing was going on between them. Well, I ended up not being able to take anymore and broke up with him. A couple of weeks later I met the sweetest guy and he took me out and we started dating. We had our bad times in the beginning about little things, but he would send me the sweetest text messages telling me how much he adores me and how happy he is with me. Took me out all the time unlike my ex who had taken me out every once in awhile because he never had the money. I had the keys to his apartment, always told me where he was without asking, and never had a girl in his apartment. Now my ex is calling me crying all the time, telling me how much he misses me, he was changed and respeced me more than ever. I dont know whether to give him another chance help me please!!
2007-01-17 07:33:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
????what is there to question?????
You are on your way up in a healthy relationship. the ex needs to stay an ex...he didnt hardly do for you, dumped you, ignored you....what are you missing?
Keep moving on up. Have pride in YOURSELF. The ex: his loss, his problem...he was living without you all this time. He'll get over it - he's just used to you being his emotional pillow.
2007-01-17 07:39:54 · answer #1 · answered by D.... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your words have betrayed you.
it seems that you would like to give your ex another chance except that you are unsure if that is right.
your ex might be remorseful... or he might still loves you but it should all been over, isn't it?
or maybe, he just thought you could fill in the blanks he has in his life.
& i dont think you are being fair to the guy who you are hanging out with.
he gave you his heart, yet you are giving your mind to whether to give your ex another chance since he has changed.
how would you feel if your bf comes telling u what a nice girl you are but yet he is thinking of giving his ex another chance?
i think u shld let ur current bf knows ur dilemna... then maybe stay cool with both of them... until your mind is clear.
2007-01-18 11:03:58 · answer #2 · answered by alibaba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
What a sweet guy you have right now.
Your not 2nd choice to him.
Be fair.
If not read some of my dumb ?'s and I have let some good ones get away.
Tell your ex - you would like to remain friends.
That girl broke his heart and he jsut knows you will have him back.
Be happy for you girl. Please be happy for you.
Think with the head not the heart.
And he wants your pity.
Give it time. If that is what is meant to be it will be. And if you give it time you may see how quick he moves on.
2007-01-17 15:38:39 · answer #3 · answered by Mia l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your gut feeling. Don't feel sorry for your ex. He was the one that dumped you. Did he get dumped by his new girlfriend?
Give it time and hang on to the new guy.If you can;t make up your
mind maybe go it alone for awhile and find someone that you're sure
that you really care about
2007-01-17 15:42:24 · answer #4 · answered by judywalker23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget the ex. He just wants you cos hes had his fun at college. If you take him back, you're just a doormat. Seems like he thinks you will be convenient now hes back home
2007-01-17 15:38:13 · answer #5 · answered by macy411 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would think things over and give him a chance- he's only human
2007-01-17 15:38:02 · answer #6 · answered by Cheesy Stuff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do it ...never go back...move forward with the good guy u have now
2007-01-17 15:37:29 · answer #7 · answered by lost 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you serious? can it be anymore obvious or are you just void of all common sense??????????????
2007-01-17 15:43:30 · answer #8 · answered by mohvictor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋