we are worried that we may not be able to have a nother one.because he is not the father of our one year old but he has rasied him all his life.someone please help
2007-01-17 07:17:17 · 7 answers · asked by heather b 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
I have three children. I got pregnant almost right away with the first one, the second and third ones took a lot longer. Just be patient and quit worrying about it. Believe it or not you really do have to relax for things to happen. If you go more than a year then you might want to have your husband go to the doctor to get a simple sperm count done. I know that they suggest boxers vs breifs as heat from the body can effect sperm. But who knows.
Just hang in there, I know it hurts when you try and keep getting your peroid...you start to feel that your doing something wrong or something is wrong with you..it is easy to get depressed. Enjoy the little one you have, even though your husband might not be the bioligical father, he is DAD. Because he is there being Dad. Best wishes.
2007-01-17 07:57:15 · answer #1 · answered by Barbiq 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We were told that when you're trying you should lay on your back or with your legs elevated afterwards for at least 30 minutes. So we had sex litterally everynight (sometimes more than once) and that kept me to where I wouldn't have to get out of bed afterwards. We got pregnant within in two weeks of starting things like that.
2007-01-17 17:34:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One is no way related to the other. If all is "right" with you and him having another baby is as easy as ... well you know how its done. Just because he is not the NATURAL father of the other child in no way halts the process of getting you pregnant again.... as long as everyting is working right medically
2007-01-17 15:22:15 · answer #3 · answered by bennyinny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep trying, I had a cousin that took a year, a friend that took 10 . You being stressed about it won't help either. Just have fun trying.
2007-01-17 15:23:02 · answer #4 · answered by kimjoey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really can take a long time to conceive, its alot more science than you might think......the window is small. If you are serious, then, try harder, chart your bbt, track your most fertile days, get on it. :)
2007-01-17 15:44:00 · answer #5 · answered by Tracy L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just 5 months? puleaseeeeeeeeeeee! just be patient and relax. i've been trying for over 2 yrs. it'll come.
2007-01-17 15:22:32 · answer #6 · answered by kennma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lucky you, i got pregnant the first time the condom broke.
2007-01-17 16:49:04 · answer #7 · answered by Molly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋