When we were leaving from the party (acquaintances from work) at her house, the hostess (single mom) asked my husband: "Oh, are you driving your car?"
...u know vs. your wife's car, as if this was a usual question of every day subject. We are all just acquaintances not even close friends, why would she be even curious and what does it matter who's car my husband is driving. it almost made me feel like this conversation came up some time before and he said no, not today I am driving my wife's car...? Is that possible ?
2007-01-17 07:03:00 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
there was no drinking alcohol at this party.
The first thing that came to my mind was that she has been in his car before.
I asked my hsband about this woman and everything that was questionable, but he says he would never do that to me, maybe she is "trying" to make a pass, but he is completely oblivious.
2007-01-18 05:04:42 · update #1
She wanted to make conversation, people do that all the time. She probably takes an interest in you two as a couple.
2007-01-17 07:06:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's entirely possible that "are you driving your car?" can mean something entirely different. That's possible though only if you have a reason to believe that our husband and this "acquaintence" are larger and closer than what the rearview mirror shows :-)
Try asking this in a very innocent, naive tone today. His answer and the way he answers should help you figure out what it could be. Good luck.
2007-01-17 07:12:10 · answer #2 · answered by houstonian352000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand what you were saying. And it might make me a little carious too. Because I would think what does it matter to her. And your right to think that. It's none of her business. To answer your question it does sound like the conversation came up before. She obviously saw your husband before driving his car and maybe she made a comment about his car to him. But you really need to to let this go. It could of been a conversation like a few words she had with your husband before, it might nothing, it's like talking about the weather. Am sure you had those kind of talks with strangers before. In your husband said the right thing. "I am driving my wife's car". So please don't worry about it. But I do agree with you, it not her business what car YOUR husband drives. But you can't control other people what they do or think or going to say. That's how life is too.
2007-01-17 07:16:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, apparently paranoia has set in. Maybe she just likes cars and is curious what kind of car you both drive. If its a nice car, she could even be jealous and wondering if it is his car to get an idea of how much money he makes, and comparing it to her car and how much money she makes. OR maybe she has had sex with him in the back of your car and this is the first time she has seen HIS car and asked him if it was his.
2007-01-17 07:11:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Re: 'acquaintances from work' - do both you and your husband work at the same place?
If only your husband works there, sounds like she was sending you a not so subtle message that there is at least perceived [on her part] closeness between the two of them.
SOME women are nasty like that....trying to 'start something' when there may not even be anything there.
2007-01-17 07:07:33 · answer #5 · answered by sage seeker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman asked me once if I was wearing my brown shoes to dinner....... Oh My God! Now I think that maybe I should look into weither or not I might have had an affair. I better ask myself as soon as I can because this could be serious!
Good Lord lady....GROW UP!
2007-01-17 07:53:15 · answer #6 · answered by open_phunguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reading between the lines here, this person definitely seems to have an interest in your husband. Maybe you should start watching desperate housewife's to give you more of an idea of what might be going on. And watch your husband too.
2007-01-17 07:09:01 · answer #7 · answered by Bruce 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If this is all you have to worry about then STOP! who cares what she thought she could have been drunk, insane, nosey or just plain nice by trying to start a conversation. The conversation might have come up befire but its hardly a biggie is it?
2007-01-17 07:11:04 · answer #8 · answered by Islandgirlss 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. that was asked in your presence to make you think and question (Is my husband cheating on me?) Be careful, very careful. She could be a friend or a foe. This is something you should ask your husband about. Then you can ask that lady. When you have done this, email me the details.
2007-01-17 07:07:58 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you're over-reacting to a totally innocent thing. Lighten up.
2007-01-17 07:21:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If being a woman means you have to worry about petty, trivial details like that, I am SO thankful to be a man!
2007-01-17 07:16:28 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋