my dad and my mom split when i was 3!!! i dont no how it feels 2 have both in 1 house!!!
2007-01-17 06:50:59 · 32 answers · asked by Georgie P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
and your question is?
2007-01-17 06:53:31 · answer #1 · answered by fopodhater 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Probably makes you feel more safe and secure, until the arguing starts. My parents divorced when I was 14 and I was fine with it. My younger siblings were not. My youngest sister was only 5 or 6. My brother, who was 11 took it really hard. It really depends on the person and the relationship between the parents. A lot of times, it is the best thing for survival. God allows everything, for a reason. Ask Him for wisdom and strength and then you can feel grateful no matter what the outcome.
2007-01-17 06:55:11 · answer #2 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I grew up the same way and honestly, I loved it and wouldn't have it any other way. My parents divorced when I was 2 years old and from then on I've always had 2 birthdays, 2 thanksgivings, 2 Christmas's, 2 new years, 2 Easters...its just great.
2007-01-17 06:56:50 · answer #3 · answered by C0CH1N0 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It feels safe and warm . . . certain, like you don't have to worry about the future too much and things will be taken care of. It feels good to know that your parents love each other; their love is like an emotional roof over your head keeping away the world's emotional rains of negativity. Together they show you how you would want, or not want, to be with a spouse, what kind of marriage you would want to have, or how you will want yours to be different. It's good. I'm sorry you missed it.
2007-01-17 07:00:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that. My sister was very young when my parents divorced and I often wonder about how she feels since she was 6 at the time. I, as the oldest child, experienced the most time in a two-parent family.
2007-01-17 06:54:43 · answer #5 · answered by Stimpy 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My parents split when I was 10 months old, so I know exactly how you feel. But if it is bothering you, why don't you just sit down and talk to them individually about it.
2007-01-17 06:57:58 · answer #6 · answered by cheerhottie02 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's very sad, but you have to make the most of your life. Do better by your children if you can and respect the fact that your mom and dad did the best they could with what they have.
2007-01-17 06:55:00 · answer #7 · answered by Jilli Bean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had both in one house.. .but my dad worked late and left early, so it was like only living with my mother. It was wierd for me to go to a friends house and they had both parents there even though I did have both.
2007-01-17 06:55:36 · answer #8 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well remember it could be better that you don't remember. It may not have been happy times when you were 3. Look forward, not backward. You are not the first person to have divorced parents and you won't be the last. Hang in there.
2007-01-17 06:54:28 · answer #9 · answered by Nancy O 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My wife's father never got out of the hospital after she was 5.
It happens, get some therapy if you become focused on it.
Otherwise you are not any where near the only one. It is just part of the life deal.
2007-01-17 06:56:35 · answer #10 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, your not the only one that has lost a parent due to divorce,
alot of children go through it everyday. you just be happy with what ever happens in your life, it can be hard at times , but we all know how hard life is. just be strong and live your life the way you've dreamed without all the worries.
2007-01-17 06:58:55 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋